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Why “Live Uncaged”?

141 Comments 21 January 2012

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God has been up to something new in my life over the past year. An unsettling. A shift in perspective. A new life. He is freeing me, moment by moment.

Which is why I changed my tagline from Turning Trials to Triumph to Live Uncaged. 

It’s not that I don’t embody the first tagline. It’s that it seemed to place more emphasis on trials, and I really didn’t like the word triumph. It connotes something I’ve done, as if I’ve triumphed over my past in my own strength. So not true. It’s all Jesus, folks.

And as I examine what the Lord has done in my heart these past few months, I know He has uncaged me. Set me free. Allowed me to soar. This is something I couldn’t do on my own; it’s His sheer gift of grace. Nor is it that I’m a Pollyanna now, rejoicing when bad things happen. It’s that my perspective on my life is shifting from pessimism to optimism. A Jesusy optimism.

I learned this truth: I no longer need to be defined by the trials in the past. I am not Mary who suffered (though it is part of my story). I am Mary who has been set free. Untangled. Opened up. Ready for new things. Anticipatory.

I’m reminded of one of my favorite Scriptures:

Isaiah 43:18-19

New International Version (NIV)

“Forget the former things;
do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.”

I have spent a lot of time in the past, dwelling there, ruminating, digging deeply. But God has been clear over the past 12 months that He is about to do something brand new. He is going to restore the desolation, renew what has been lost. He asks me (and you) the probing question, “Will you not perceive it?”

I believe our cages (usually created from our painful past) have become comfortable and easy. We’ve learned to live in them, to have them be our normal. Flying and soaring are too scary, too new, too different. We’d rather live trapped because it’s become our strange comfort zone.

In Colorado during our vacation, the Lord directed me to the Scriptures about fowlers. A fowler is someone who catches a bird in a trap or snare. He is a type of hunter who observes the behavior of birds to predict what they will do next. Then he traps the bird based on what it typically does. In like manner, Satan is our fowler, but Jesus sets us free. Satan wants to trip us up. Jesus wants to watch us fly.

Consider this scripture: “For he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence” (Psalm 91:3, ESV).

Or this: “We have escaped like a bird out of the fowler’s snare; the snare has been broken, and we have escaped. Our help is in the name of the Lord who made heaven and earth” (Psalm 124:7-8, NIV).

Charles Spurgeon aptly expounds about this freedom here:

God delivers his people from the snare of the fowler in two senses. From, and out of. First, he delivers them from the snare—does not let them enter it; and secondly, if they should be caught therein, he delivers them out of it. The first promise is the most precious to some; the second is the best to others. “He shall deliver thee from the snare.” How? Trouble is often the means whereby God delivers us. … At other times, God keeps his people from the snare of the fowler by giving them great spiritual strength, so that when they are tempted to do evil they say, “How can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” … Thou shalt yet be brought out of all evil into which thou hast fallen, and though thou shalt never cease to repent of thy ways, yet he that hath loved thee will not cast thee away; he will receive thee, and give thee joy and gladness, that the bones which he has broken may rejoice. No bird of paradise shall die in the fowler’s net.

We are all birds of paradise, meant to soar. We are meant to be free. To live so fully engaged and joyful in the present that most folks wouldn’t be able to tell that we’ve had difficult pasts. That’s how big our God is compared to our trials. “For he shatters the doors of bronze and cuts in two the bars of iron. … He brought them out of darkness and the shadow of death, and burst their bonds apart” (Psalm 107:6, 14).

My heart for you who are reading this post is that you’ll experience uncaged, joyful freedom as I have. I’m still in process. I still deal in the doldrums, but I’m seeing more light lately. And that is why I write. I can’t help but tell you the beautiful things God is doing in my life. God gave me a voice. “If the Lord had not been my help, my soul would’ve lived in the land of silence” (Psalm 49:17).

Q4u: What about you? How has God enabled you to live uncaged? What prevents you from soaring today?

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  • http://www.jeremybuzzard.com/ Jeremy Buzzard

    Wow, @MaryDemuth:disqus, this post could have been my own. The Lord has been doing
    something very similar in me this year. This post yet again confirms that He put
    you in my life for a reason. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s so cool to read, Jeremy!

  • http://twitter.com/virginiavann virginiavann

    I found this post today and am so thankful for you and your ministry. I grew up with abuse, addiction and aged out of foster care. I have been re-learning over the last few months the only cage I am in is the one I make by holding to certain things (anger, fear, shame) instead of complete surrender. Psalm 34:5 “Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.” So excited to read your book. I’m a youth pastors wife, mom of 2 under 3, full-time grad student, and am working full-time. I need this truth and daily reminder: I am meant to live uncaged! Thank you!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Amen, Virginia. Sorry it’s taken me two months to respond to this! Keep living a healed life.

  • DeanneMoore

    God sent his Word and healed me when I was in a lock down unit of a mental health facility. The verse He sent was Ps. 91:3. I recently was leading a women’s group through a study of the  Psalms of Ascents and came across Ps. 124:7-8. I was overwhelmed again at what God has done for me. I am eleven years healed from major clinical depression and my word for this year is “restored.”  

    I read “Thin Places” on my journey back from a mission trip to Ukraine in February and just finished “Beautiful Battle.” I highlighted most of the book, and how I loved the prayers. It is a incredible resource for those of us who have made it out to live “uncaged” and have others asking us how in the world we made it. We didn’t. God did it for us. I thank you for emphasizing our Great God as the means to winning the battle. 

    I feel God placed your book in my hand as another confirmation that I am truly restored and ready to live the adventure from here. Thank you for your obedience and diligence in writing this book. It was a gift to me and will be to many others I am sure.

    Here is my story in a nutshell: http://meetyouinthemorning.blogspot.com/2011/11/from-deepest-well-way-up-is-up.html

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

       Thanks for your kind words. I’m glad the books both blessed you. Thanks for the link.

  • http://christinamariehernandez.wordpress.com/ Christina

    Mary,
    Have you ever read You Will Fly Again by Melody Ross of The Brave Girls Club? I was reminded of it as I read this. Here’s the link: http://melodyross.typepad.com/my_weblog/2009/01/you-will-fly-again.html  I just have to say again that I am so glad to have found you. Your writing, your blog, your resources are so valuable for th journey I am on right now. May God bless all you do for His kingdom.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

       i haven’t but thanks for the link and the kind words.

  • Sandy Morales

    I guess that I feel paralized and in limbo for the past 20  yrs.  I want to be free. I know that I must forgive and move on with my life, but I’m still in a painful situation.  Our Lord has blessed me so much…and I don’t want to make a mistake. ( By the way, I’ve tried again and again to receive theLive Uncaged and Write Uncaged ebooks, but no luck.  I wish to know how to do it correctly.)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

       I emailed you.

      May you be set free today!

  • Blest2bless

    I want so much to believe it could happen for me.  My grief is so deep; He has to be the one to take it away.  I cling to verse…”a garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness.”

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Jesus, may it be so. Please gift her the garment of praise.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Jesus, may it be so. Please gift her the garment of praise.

  • Anonymous

    Thank you Mary for sharing your journey!  I feel like God has been calling me to live in greater freedom from fear.  So glad I discovered your blog via Michele’s blog, from the unpaved road.

  • http://www.traciebertaut.com Tracie Bertaut

    One of the most eye-opening moments I ever had was when I was giving a presentation to a small group at work on working through change and asked the question – “What would you do if you weren’t afraid to fail?”  I’m sure I didn’t coin this phrase, but at that moment, it held such insight for me and I have repeated to myself on many occasions.

  • Dvtomassoni

    Mary,

    I just came across your posts in the email sent to me by Michael Hyatt. It’s true we allow our past define us. I became a Christian late in life, one of the scriptures I love is “What, what would have become of me if I had not seen the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. Psalm 27:13. This says everything about me. My life today and the way I perceive things is 380 degrees different from the old..Thank you Lord! I am also the Donna that has been set free. I had just written in my journal last month that “it’s not my past that defines me, but my uniqueness that propels me forward. I loved reading your posts and the comments.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Great verse!

      Hooray for the Donna who has been set free!

  • http://sheenatabraham.wordpress.com/ Sheena T Abraham

    Saw this link on Michael Hyatt’s blog. Really reflects what I’ve been experiencing!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Glad to hear you’re experiencing an uncaged life!

  • FemmeFuel

    This tagline of living UNCAGED is beautiful. Thank you again for guest posting on Michael Hyatt’s blog; I’m so glad I discovered you! I’m really savoring this declaration of yours:

    “I learned this truth: I no longer need to be defined by the trials in the past.
    I am not Mary who suffered (though it is part of my story). I am Mary
    who has been set free. Untangled. Opened up. Ready for new things.
    Anticipatory.”

    –JM
    http://femmefuel.com/

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you so much!

  • Anonymous

    I am in the process of breaking free. I’ve spent a long time in the valley but I praise God that I’ve been spared the fowler (not necessarily avoiding the traps but being freed, probably repeatedly, from the snares).

    I love the new look and the new tagline!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks so much!

  • http://twitter.com/gritandglory Alece Ronzino

    BEAUTIFUL! i love your new tagline and look — and your amazing heart that shines through it all. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks so much, Alece!!

  • Musicatide

    Hello Mary thank-you for the invite to the Muir house. Unforuntely I am too far from Texas. I also lift a thank-you prayer for the prayer you prayed over me.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I’m glad the prayer helped.

  • Tracy

    Uncaged, uncaged, I love the visual of being uncaged: set free. The new me, including the trials of the past, have made me able to be uncaged. This will be my word of the day, word of the week, word of the month. I am so excited to see how many others in my world will be blessed because of your words that define what He is doing in you. Thanks.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Tracy. Yes, may it be true that you live uncaged.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Cindy-Windham-Jones/100000640663630 Cindy Windham Jones

    Mary, 
    It’s really scary sometimes how God uses your emails to confirm things He’s spoken to me, perhaps that morning.  I feel like you are right in the room with me during prayer time.  Isn’t God cool like that?  He uses His chosen vessels the way that pleases Him, in simple emails.  I can’t number the times your words have touched my life and spoken to my heart this year.  I’m so excited for your new look and the changes God is taking you through.  I know you will be a tremendous blessing to many, many people.  Thank you for your faithfulness!
    Cindy

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, God is indeed cool like that, Cindy! I’m so thankful my words have helped.

  • http://twitter.com/garyvanriper Gary Allen VanRiper

    Hello Mary,Read your post and then blog and thought immediately of Psalm 124- and then, there it was at the close of your piece :) So – had to send this link along to the Psalm which our worship director and I put to original music a while back. Experimented with a Flip video for the footage of the stream – maybe better to close your eyes and simply listen to God’s Word. Hope it’s edifying.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HM9j0DMB-2oAlso set free in Christ,gary.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks for sharing the link.

  • Clytafharris

    Ah, Mary, thanks for sharing.  I thought I was beginning to live uncaged until I lost my infant grandson in early March.  God is gently walking me through this experience, and I’m trusting I will come out on the other side a much stonger person.  He is healing me more day by day.As a former English teacher, I was reminded of Maya Angelou’s I KNOW WHY THE CAGED BIRD SINGS and Langston Hughes’ poem, “What Happens to a Dream Deferred?”  It is NOT good to stay caged all the time, as it inhibits our freedom and our creativity.  So the caged bird sings–not because she is happy– but because she wants to be released from the cage to be free to LIVE life to its fullest. 

    I love your new look and the new concept!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Wow, that’s a hard loss. I can’t even imagine. May the Lord bring light to the darkness.

  • Anonymous

    Mary, I like the ‘freed’ look and intention. Always my best to you in future days

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Lyndie.

  • Lhopepek96

    I love the verses in Isa 43.  God has used those in my life as well.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Seems like a popular verse! :)

  • Rachelhauck

    Mary, love your new site and heartily rejoice with the good work God’s done in your heart! :) JOY!! 

    Love, Rachel

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Rachel, that’s so sweet. Thank you.

  • Jodi Adams

    I found my freedom to fly when God rescued me from the grip of a cult at 17. But freedom doesn’t mean ability. It has taken me many years to completely free myself from the grip I’ve allowed it to have on me. God gives us the freesom, but it is up to us to accept it. I still feel like a fledgling at times. But you are right, our past does not have to refine us. It is not what I have been saved from that matters as much as what I’ve been saved for. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Wow. A cult! Wow!

  • Jeanne

    Mary, I love the new loook and your message. The idea of living uncaged is wonderful. I see it, in part in my life, in choosing surrender to the Lord’s plans and agendas over mine. He’s having His way with me, and I ask for the strength to walk through it well. He gives it daily, freeing me to rest in Him. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  • Karen Nolan Bell

    I truly loved the old look – but I have to say the new you is happy, positive and inviting. Rather reflects healing in your life.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Karen.

  • Patti

    Love it! As one who has also been set free and taken flight recently, this really resonates with me.  I’m so thankful for the gift of words that God has given you Mary, for the exquisite voice He has given you.  Thank you for sharing the gift. You are Light when you write :)   God bless you on the journey, sister. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you for affirming His gift in me.

  • Julie

    Mary,  I am here on your post, after having read (should say scanned it) quickly this morning and couldn’t give it the time I needed to.  I prayed the prayer that you prayed over me via the link I received, and then got on with the day. 

    I want you to know, that I am reading this post thoroughly,  just now (later at night), and am responding via comment, as, I have just journalled about a REAL BREAKTHROUGH that happen in my heart today, A BIG ONE, a stronghold for 10 years, I think, maybe longer!

    I had totally, forgotten, about that prayer you prayed over me this morning via your email link I received and here I am back checking through the things I skimmed this morning, and find that prayer that was prayed….

    I don’t believe in coincidences and so, I am thanking you, for your faithfulness to the Lord, in writing what He gives you to write and letting you know that I had written in my journal these words…”Well, today, You (Lord), gave me the new perspective…it’s like the maze of trying to figure it all out has finally been unlocked or the locked door is now open”!!! That is what I wrote! and had TOTALLY forgotten about your email today.  You see.  That is what I have been crying out for.  Perspective, Freedom, Vision..

    Thank you Lord, Bless you Mary!
    Julie

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Wow. Julie. This really blessed me. Yes, I agree. God is at work and wants to do some cool work in your heart. Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/jennifersaake Jenni Saake

    Mary, what a BEAUTIFUL new tagline! Thank you for sharing these verses and the story behind God’s unfolding changes in you. {hug}

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Jenni.

  • http://beckfarfromhome.blogspot.com/ Beck Gambill

    I love your thoughts on living in such freedom and joy most people wouldn’t know we’d had difficult pasts. I’m finding myself to be there more and more and it surprises me. I appreciate your testimony of the new thing God is doing in your life and the place he’s taking you.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I’m glad you’re finding new life, Beck.

  • http://www.facebook.com/sgoodmanwright Writer-Shelly Goodman-Wright

    Looks great!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Shelly.

  • Karen Jordan

    Great tagline, Mary! And a good word!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      So glad you think so, Karen.

  • http://www.awildwomancreation.blogspot.com Stephanie Fischer

    I so identify with your words: “I learned this truth: I no longer need to be defined by the trials in the past. I am not Mary who suffered (though it is part of my story). I am Mary who has been set free. Untangled. Opened up. Ready for new things. Anticipatory.”  I give a testimony about my trials and how I finally heard God’s voice and returned to him.  But in growing in the Lord I no longer need the testimony of my trials to be an excuse (for me) for loving my Savior so much.  Now I am letting the light shine, the joy, the happiness, the no fear are what I give to people I meet each day and then I am telling them why I have all this abundance that is free for the taking.  Thank you for your words, they are very encouraging…..

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Wow, we’re on parallel journeys, Stephanie! Preach it!

  • http://twitter.com/AnneMateer Anne Mateer

    Love, love, love the new look and the new tagline!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you, friend.

  • Mollie Lyon

    I love it.  My cage seems to be money and cars-lack of the two.  But I’m keeping close to Jesus and knowing I’ll soar as He sees the time.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Hang in there, Mollie.

  • Linda Goodman

    Mary – I absolutely love your new look and tag line!! God has done similar things in my life and I also have been sensing God now wants me to focus on the present things He is doing and not so much the past He has brought me through. Really appreciate your writing, keep up the good work!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Linda. I’m glad the post resonated with you.

  • Megan_sayer

    Great work, I love it!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Megan.

  • http://www.journalwriter.blogspot.com Dawn Herring

    Mary, 
    I’m thrilled for you with the wonderful changes you are experiencing. It is only appropriate to move in the direction you are being led to.  It can be scary to fly when things are so new; but we are never alone in our flight. 

    Be refreshed, 
    Dawn Herring

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Dawn. I appreciate your kind words.

  • Candlecomm

    So glad you’ve moved on to this Mary. If the Son shall set you free you will be free indeed. Love the new look for the website too.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you so much. Is this Marion from England?

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_APB5CWQRQVNQ6HCHSJIDEEP7BA Di

    Mary, when I was praying and deciding to move on from being the executive director of a local pregnancy center, the Lord gave me that verse as well. Sometimes it is easier to look back and not forward with anticipation and excitement. The other thing we do is hesitate about our next move . . . God kept bringing to mind the slogan “Just Do It!” Thanks for the reminder. 

    Oh and, I like your new tag line!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks so much, Di. It’s a great Scripture, isn’t it?

  • http://www.gracefox.com Grace

    Beautiful, Mary. Just like you.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Ah, thank you Grace. Love your name!

  • Judy

    Mary, great tagline and wonderful new look to the website. I love them both and love the meaning behind them. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you, Judy.

  • Julie

    I REALLY am drawn to this, Mary. Kudos to you (and God, of course).  *smile*

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Julie. Good to know you’re drawn to it.

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Penny-Sobocinski/100000709490206 Penny Sobocinski

        I am drawn to this as well. I shared it with my face book friends, and they seem to be drawn to it as well!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=673111206 Ann Morton Voskamp

    {God uses you to help us find His updrafts. *Thank You*}

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you so much, Ann. Well said.

  • Mary Hampton

    I’m excited for you Mary! I love that you see God taking you a new direction. You’ve been through this season of reflection and introspection for a reason, because the words that have flowed from it have touched so many. But so will the words that are to come.

    I know one of the most meaningful comments I can get is when someone (especially someone who has known me for a long time) says, “I never knew you went through that.” I’m grateful that God has redeemed aspects of my life and that those circumstances aren’t what define me even though they were used to shape me. I’m glad you see Him doing the same thing in your life.

    His blessings as you move forward.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      What great words, Mary. I agree. It’s really great when I hear someone say, “I can’t believe you had that story.” God has done much!

  • Colleen

    Mary, I really like your updated look, reflecting the newer “you” as you journey with God. I was intrigued with your study on fowlers, and likening Satan to one. This is so true! He watches us and knows our weakness, and through them he can lead us astray. 

    God has delivered me from a painful past, so that when others meet me they have no idea of what I’ve been through. I live each day with joy and hope in the Lord. And now I will don my spiritual armor to be better prepared, because I know that cunning fowler is watching.

    This week God is again creating me anew. He has shown me a new way. I feel it in my heart. I know it is not from anything I myself have done. Being open to God working in my life is the most wonderful journey, and I am so grateful that He has never given up on me.

    Thank you for all of your encouragement, and for all you have done to help so many find freedom from the past. We move forward knowing God is leading the way.

      

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I’m glad to hear a bit of your story, Colleen. So good to hear about God’s redemption!

  • http://foodliesandtruth.blogspot.com/ Barb Winters

    Love it!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Barb.

  • Andrea Van Ye

    Great perspective, Mary!  I love that verse from Isaiah, and it was on my lips this weekend.  I traveled out of state with my 17 year old son, bringing him to a camp for kids with special needs.  He will be there for 6 weeks. It is a big change for him, for me, for my whole family.  As he and I were travelling together, I talked to him about this verse … encouraging him that it appears to me that the Lord is doing a “new thing” for him.  I was proud of him as he stepped away from me on this new adventure.  Truth is, letting him go was hard for me.  Lots of unknowns, having to trust the Lord in new ways … but as I was pouring my heart out to the Lord in the days before boarding the plane to bring him, the Lord was very clear to me, impressing on my heart, “Andrea, you are strong — now BE strong.”  I needed to be reminded of all the times that the Lord sowed strength in to me, that has now grown into a strong plant.  I had choices — I could choose to BE strong — embracing His strength in me, not just living in my grief..  I like your new approach and I see the Spirit of God in it — proud of you, Mary — you are strong and your are BEING strong …

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Good words, Andrea. Be strong. Yes, I like that.

  • Terri

    Beautiful new website and tagline. You’re right, it’s even better. As far as your questions above, I’ve been set free from defining myself as a victim. I don’t even feel related to that negative girl I used to be. Now the things that hinder me are confusion and distractions. Like a vicious cycle I can’t seem to overcome. Though I still feel God’s love and call, I can’t seem to press ahead to fulfill it.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I have too, Terri.

  • http://www.love-laugh-learn.com Deanna

    The tagline and header is a natural fit! 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s great to hear, Deanna.

  • http://twitter.com/melissa_rae Melissa Brotherton

    I love the new look, and that tagline is inspiring! One thing I’ve noticed about blogging is that people can feel caged in by the image/issue they initially portray. We are constantly growing and changing, and as much as we want to think differently, an elevator pitch can never define us. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, I agree. We need to let God shake things up, and invite others along in the journey.

  • Esther Feng

    I love this — and I love that you’re moving from pessimism to optimism!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Esther.

  • Goosebay1

    Free indeed!  In your words, I experienced the “lift” that comes from placing all hope in Jesus. The analogy of the fowler’s trap is very applicable to me. Just this morning, I watched the sun rise over a still lake near my home. Two Ospreys (eagles) played on the thermals.  They called back and forth in their one note song and danced in the light of heaven. Lifted, carried, free.  That is how I want to live.  Guess the first step is getting out of the cage—and letting God lock the door behind me.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, get out of that cage and fly like an Osprey!

  • Lynn Mosher

    Beautiful, Merry Mary! As always! I love the new look and the new tagline. The open birdcage reminds of a decorating episode I watched years ago. The decorators were redoing a small retreat for a writer. They found a birdcage that belonged to her and set it on the new desk. When the writer saw it, she was overwhelmed as it was a very sentimental piece to her. She began to cry as she saw that they had left the cage door open. She was now free to be herself…and to write. So like you. May you continue to bless a multitude of hearts!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Wow, that sounds like a great decorating episode!

  • http://RUTHIELEWIS.WORDPRESS.COM RUTHIE LEWIS

    ·         I love this, Mary! It’s such a perfect picture of how we get trapped. I have come to understand that watching a beloved soul’s heart caged from the freedom we are created for and the freedom Jesus died for is what breaks God’s heart most.  It came at such a great time for me. Something arose in my life that I knew would take a lot of spiritual warfare. I was seeing this person caged but the person caged usually cannot see they are caged, and in fact, sometimes it is a quest for freedom (the “I will do what I want and there’s nothing wrong w/ that” kind of freedom) that in the end imprisons.  It gives new understanding to the scriptures that speak of the fowler and his subtle snare-setting ways.  Our cages are built of many different materials; guilt; pain; anger; resentment; abuse, but the way out is always the same; knowing and embracing the boundless love of God.  But it is not just a cliche!THANK YOU FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL PIECE!  If it’s ok w/ u, Mary, I would love to post this on my blog. RuthieLewis.wordpress.com

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Feel free to post it on you blog. Just link back to me, if you will. I love the idea of cages as pictures of spiritual warfare.

  • Laura

    Love the new look Mary!  What God is showing you now is so appropriate in many lives, especially mine.  I have been caged by negative thoughts and behaviors driven by my past.  Not by what others have done to me so much as what I have done to myself.  Guilt acts as the steel rods of the cage, keeping us bound to it.  We cage ourselves.  Freedom to love and be loved, forgive and be forgiven, accept and be accepted….these are all gifts to us from our Father.  It is up to us to accept them, receive them and live them out every day.  I long to shed the skin of the past and be excited about what God is doing in my life.  Thank you for your encouragement Mary!  And for your prayers.  Blessings to you my friend. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Oh girl, I have spoken negative words over myself far too many times!

  • Lynn Cowell

    Love  it Mary! Love the joy behind it :)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you, sweet Lynn.

  • Jeanie

    Loved it! So kewl to watch the body of Christ respond to something we share, realizing that He really is at the heart of it. The pastor at the church we visited Sunday told a story about locking a teen in a closet, but it wasn’t actually locked. He never attempted to come out because he thought it was locked. Reality: he could have come out whenever he wanted. I so related to that and when I read your blog, it made a greater emphasis. Thanks! I love it when the Holy Spirit speaks thru my sisters in Christ! Will u be at She Speaks this summer?

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s a great illustration.

  • Eleanorswan

    One word:  A W E S O M E!!!!! :)     Jesus doeth all things well!!!!!! Thank you for sharing your life Mary, you are na very large blessing.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Eleanor!

  • Anonymous

    This is awesome, Mary. I love your new tagline and the “new” you. I love the way you have expressed your heart in this post, through your beautiful writing. As for me, I haven’t quite learned how to fly yet. Especially above my circumstances. Blessings to you on your journey!!!

  • Mocha with Linda

    I love it!  Much lighter and. . .freer!  Beautiful and full of God’s grace and light.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Linda.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kristyensor Kristy Townsend Ensor

    Fabulous new look and feel Mary.  Great tagline too, but more importantly…it’s your attitude of being free from the past trials that is so refreshing.  God truly does make all things new just as His word promises!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes He does! Amen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/laura.boggess Laura Boggess

    Oh, Mary. This is perfect. One thing that keeps me coming back to your writing over and over is the way you are always growing, stretching yourself…living free. A beautiful new look for a beautiful you.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Laura. It’s good to know you see growth in me.

  • Julie

    This so fits in with what the Lord has been speaking to me this week, that He makes all things new. I thank Him daily for renewal and here is the verse that touched my heart, actually made me cry. 

    When the Lord brought back the captives (who returned) to Zion we were like those who dream (it seemed so unreal).
    Then our mouths were filled with laughter and our tongues with singing. Then they said among the nations, the Lord has done great things for them. The Lord has done great things for us! We are glad!
    Turn to freedom our captivity and restore our fortunes oh Lord, as the streams in the south (the Negeb) [are restored by torrents].
    Those who sow in tears shall reap in joy and singing. He who goes forth bearing seed and weeping (at needing his precious supply of grain for sowing) shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him. (Amplified)

    I’m so glad our God is a God of exchange.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Such good verses, Julie. Thanks for sharing them.

  • Donna

    Absolutely love it! 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you, Donna.

  • http://www.facebook.com/srvnGod Rev. Melinda C. McCray

    I love it , Mary.  You go girl!  Jesus is so restoring my life, but I am also in a transition.  He is beginning to do something new, and many of the scriptures you shared today are those He has shared with me.  I pray as you leave the archeological dig of the past, and share the artifacts with others with joy and anticipation of the future, God would bless you abundantly.  What an inspiration you are to all of us.  Thanking God for you. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I love that: archeological dig of the past. Wow!

  • Megs

    Love the new look and Love, Love the new tagline!!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you!

  • carrie

    Hi Mary, this is a beautiful new look! I like the uncaged logo and tagline. It reflects the healing and freedom you share in your testimony and books. Very nice!
    Carrie

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks, Carrie. I’m glad you like it.

  • josey bozzo

    Mary,
    Love the new tagline and the new look of your blog.  I don’t think I’m soaring at all.  I don’t know why. Sometimes I wonder if it is myself that is holding me back.  I’m not sure how my past plays into it or why it even would.  Something I’ve never admitted to anyone……the only time I ever remember feeling “free” was when my father died.  He’s been gone for a few years now and I don’t think about him, or the fact that he is gone my only saddness comes from how I felt free when he died. I have no idea what that’s about.  I don’t know if it plays into anything.
    But I don’t feel like I’m soaring. I feel stuck in the same old patterns day after day.
    Well, anywhoo.
    I enjoy stopping by here.  Your book proposal tutorial has been wonderful. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      There must be something about that time when your father died. Have you talked to someone about it? Or had someone pray for you after you’ve shared what went on in your heart? Might be a good thing to do.

  • http://bahava.wordpress.com Katy

    Oh I do love the new tagline and the pretty header! I’ve been pondering Isaiah 43 lately too…and for quite a while I’ve wanted to use it as an excuse to avoid actually facing, dealing with, and healing those messy parts of my heart and story.  It’s that hard sometimes you have to look back first so that you can let go and move forward into the new thing. At least I’m hoping so! We’ll see =) 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes I agree. But once you’ve spent time back there, being honest and letting Jesus heal you, there must be a forward look next. That’s where I’m at. Hang in there, Katy. You are well loved!

  • James Watkins

    I love the new tag line and new look. Light! Bright! Hopeful!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Jim!

  • Denese B.

    Mary,  Love your new tagline/theme.  It’s beautiful to look at and so encouraging too.  I’ve been pondering on Isaiah 43 as well.  One of the ways God helps me to live uncaged is the reality that I can press through something (a new experience or something that makes me uncomfortable) while afraid.  I used to think the fear would pass and I would go forward full or confidence.  Now I realize that whether fearful or not, I can go forward trusting Him, knowing that He accompanies me and empwers me.
    Also, have you seen the adorable new birdcage Dayspring has out?  It’s for clipping on little notes or pictures and it’s so cute for your theme!  Have a wonderful day.  Your writings have been a great encouragement to me : )

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Good word, Denese. I so love that about going forward anyway. Fear can be a crippling thing.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I’ll have to check out the birdcage!

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