If you truly desire impossible joy, you have to be present. Remember that God is not the Great I Was. He is not the Great I Will Be. He is the Great I Am—the God of the present tense. All you have is now. And how you view your life right now will determine your joy....
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Stingy = Unhappy
Money (and lack of it) brings stress. And managing our bills often feels like slavery, not freedom. Our relationship with money can either break us or bring great joy. My prayer for you is that you would dare to have a godly view of money. First, let’s put money in...
Who is Your Goliath?
No doubt, there are some relationships in your life that are thriving, whose steady beat brings joy to you. But there may be some relationships that steal your breath and damage your heart. In order to experience joy, it’s wise to take a look at those difficult...
Here’s the Secret to Joy
The best way to improve your joy is one simple practice: rest. We’re on a sickening treadmill of accomplishments, tasks, busyness, and joylessness. Every year we increase the speed of our lives, all the while wanting to slow down. But society says we can’t, and we...
7 Ways to Offer Grace to … Yourself
I tend to digest really negative thoughts about myself. Whatever mean-spirited words jump into my head, I welcome and believe them. Words like, “You’ll never amount to anything,” or “Who do you think you are to do ______,” or “No one gives a rip about you.” Am I alone...
Jeremiah 29:11 Doesn’t Mean What You Think
As we learn to bounce back from painful situations, we find the power of resilience. Merriam-Webster defines resilience as “an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change.” Here’s a fact: You will experience misfortune and change. Pretending...
These Two Words Are Poison
The secret to an impossibly joyful life is letting go of two awful words. They lurk in your heart like wild, angry beasts, looking for the right opportunity to devour you. They are toxins, too, seemingly innocent until they take over with a cancerous vengeance. If you...
Let God be BIG (and your problems small)
Impossible joy starts here: recognizing the power and majesty of God. It might seem counter-intuitive to think that way. Wouldn’t it make more sense to boost our self-esteem and think about how cool we are? Wouldn’t that make us more joyful? The two ideas aren’t...
Why you need people
People are pesky. They betray. They hurt us. They trample our hearts. So why even try? Why not just give into bitterness and isolate ourselves the rest of our lives? Because we will never experience deep joy in life if we cut ourselves off from others. A. B. Simpson...
How to Kill that Green-Eyed Monster Named Envy
I've grown up as an envious girl. I've envied other girls' popularity, wardrobe, and ease in social situations. I've envied others' relationships with God, family, and friends. It's not pretty to admit, but it's true. The most surprising thing God’s done as I've...
Jam Disaster! Win a Jam-splotched copy of Everything!
UPDATE: We have a winner (picked by Random.org). LauraLynnBrown. Her current favorite jam comes from Alaska, orange rhubarb (yum). Laura, please email me at Mary @ MaryDeMuth.com and send your addy. I learned a lot about you folks! Most of you love strawberry. But...
Confessions of a control freak {Awesome Guest Post by Lindsey Bell}
I'm tickled pink (can one be tickled pink? Why not blue?) to have Lindsey Bell here today. She is a non-fiction author, stay-at-home mother of two squirrely boys, and disciple of Jesus. Her parenting book, Searching for Sanity (great title!) will be out soon,...