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Writers: You Have to Start Somewhere. I did.

37 Comments 31 May 2012

I want you to stop a moment and read this. I wrote this a decade ago for the Rockwall Christian Writers Group. If you can’t read it, here’s what I wrote.

Personal Writing Goals:

Past writing experiences, studies, achievements: 

  • Produced 4 newsletters, one self-published
  • English BA

Current writing projects:

  • Great grandmother book
  • short articles
  • Threshing Floor (DTS), once a month column

Think about that a moment. One decade ago, I was essentially unpublished. I’d created some newsletters and penned a column for my husband’s seminary newsletter (not paid). I had just started The Quarryman’s Wife. And that book never got picked up by a traditional publisher. I hadn’t been to a conference. I had barely been to a writer’s group. I had potential but none of it realized.

Here’s the truth: Everyone has to start somewhere.

But we like shortcuts. We forget this Scripture: “For who has despised the day of small things?” Zechariah 4:9. We’d rather have instant gratification of our dream right now, without having to put the sweat equity behind it.

Don’t let the hard work deter you. Remember Joseph and his crazy dreams of world domination. They eventually came true, but not until God used years and years of trials and faithfulness to test his character. You may have a vision of being something spectacular, but God may have given it to you for this purpose: to sustain you through the long journey.

So many times I faced dead ends. So much rejection flew my way. And even after I published, the journey didn’t become butterflies and chocolate. More like gravel and thorns. If I hadn’t had that initial vision that God had instigated this writing journey, I would’ve given up.

Just because you’ve been given a vision for the future doesn’t mean it will happen today. Tuck that encouragement deep in your heart. Pull it out when you’re thinking of quitting. And then do the next thing. Then the next thing. Then the next thing.

Because anything worth pursuit will be a dangerous journey. Besides, would anyone else be intrigued by this story: “I decided to become a writer, so I wrote a book and hit the NYT bestseller list.” The stories we like are full of obstacles and tenacity.

Start somewhere.

Don’t despise being faithful in small things.

Apprentice and learn the craft.

Keep the vision handy when discouragement comes.

And persevere.

I did. By God’s grace. 14 books under my belt, even more written. A decade of hard work. But it all started with the first step.

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  • Gertrude Nonterah

    Thanks for the encouragement Mary. It helps to know that you are not alone on a journey and that someone has been there before. God bless you. I especially appreciate the Joseph analogy. God has big things in store for us if we will just tarry and be patient. Thanks once again !

  • Alan & Michelle Grover

    Thanks, Mary! My husband’s in seminary right now, and I write. I started with two devotionals for teens and published through my alma mater’s press (JourneyForth). Then I taught middle school resource for a few years, allowing my husband to work p-t and clip off more of the PhD before welcoming our third son. And now, I’ve finished my first novel and am looking forward to finding the right fit. I appreciate your website and your practical encouragements. Your other post on Success Ladder or Downward Mobile was a blessing to me too. Would LOVE to connect with you as you have time and plan to read your novel, The Quarryman’s Wife, soon. Thanks again for your encouragement to “be faithful in small things.” Grace and peace, with love, michelle

  • http://twitter.com/lornafaith Lorna Faith

    Thanks Mary for this encouraging post:) I am just starting out myself and needed to be reminded that ‘everyone starts somewhere.’ I did hear encouraging news that my 1st Short Story was published on Christian Fiction Online Magazine…so that just what I needed to hear today.
    Thanks so much for encouraging writers like me who are starting out!

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    Great encouragement for those just starting out!

  • http://www.NatalieSharpston.com/ Natalie Sharpston

    I love this post! So encouraging. And your phrase: “sweat equity” :) It reminds me a bit from the introduction in James Scott Bell’s book, Plot & Structure:

    “I wasted ten years of prime writing life because of the Big Lie. In
    my twenties, I gave up the dream of becoming a writer because I had
    been told that writing could not be taught. Writers are born, people
    said. You either have what it takes or you don’t, and if you don’t
    you’ll never get it… But the itch to write would not go away… And I
    discovered the most incredible thing. The Big Lie was a lie. A person
    could learn how to write because I was learning.”

  • http://graceformymess.com/ Jana | GraceForMyMess.com

    WOW. I love the verse you quoted from Zechariah. You’re right: regardless of our goal, we all want instant success, but the work has to come first. I love how you say it – “butt in chair”. Thanks for the encouragement, and the reminder that everyone (even a bestselling author) had to start somewhere. :)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yep, good ol’ BOC!

  • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

    But how do you stick with it when you’re not sure? For example, I think about American Idol, in the tryouts, when people go up to sing (and they’re horrible!) and they say that someone in their life (mom, dad, best friend, etc.) said they had a beautiful voice and were great at singing. Only to hear later, from someone else, that they actually have an awful singing voice and can’t hit a note. And this whole time they truly thought they were good at it.
    It gets confusing when some people say you’re good at something and other people say you’re not. You say, “If I hadn’t had that initial vision that God had instigated this writing journey, I would’ve given up.” I think that is the key. It has to be God’s idea and He lets that person know that they can do it and that they’re good at it.
    Because it doesn’t seem like there would be much motivation for trying without some kind of confirmation from God… I don’t know. Because God knows us best, so we can’t always listen to what people say, but sometimes people can see things we can’t. And yet you don’t want to waste time if there’s something you could be doing that’s better. It just feels so complicated sometimes.

  • Paula

    Hi Mary,
    Thank you for your willingness to open your history to our eyes. I have a new motto I posted on the bulletin board behind my computer. It says, “Crawl, Walk, Run.”
    This stage of my writing is my crawl stage. Whenever I glimpse those words, I picture my kids when they crawled and the great fun we both had during that season. One day, I will walk, but for now, embracing the beauty of the floor is my goal.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s a terrific motto, Paula!!!

  • KeithFerrin

    “A journey of a thousand miles…” Well done, sister.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Or 10,000 hours. :)

  • Kim Teamer

    Thanks for the encouragement, Mary. You are so appreciated.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Kim.

  • http://www.thedailyretort.com/ TorConstantino

    Mary – fantastic word of encouragement and inspiration! Thanks so much for sharing this invigorating insight!!!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You are most welcome!

  • Lindsey Bell

    Very encouraging. Thank you:)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      My pleasure.

  • http://inhisloveministries.blogspot.com/ Pilar Arsenec

    This was totally a confirmation from the Lord. Thank you. Mary, I have subscribed to your blog and have not been getting your posts for some reason?

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Click on the little envelope icon below the header. Or here: http://feedburner.google.com/fb/a/mailverify?uri=MaryDeMuth&loc=en_US

      • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

        Be sure you check your Spam box b/c sometimes they go there.

    • BillintheBlank

      Pilar, You’ve been missing some good ones!

      • http://inhisloveministries.blogspot.com/ Pilar Arsenec

        I know, but I always wander to her website, because I love everything she has to say. :)

        • http://inhisloveministries.blogspot.com/ Pilar Arsenec

          yuck, typo!! wander, not wonder, sheesh lol

  • http://www.heidikreider.com/ Heidi Kreider

    Thank you, Mary, for revealing a glimpse of the path you’ve been on. I’m sharing this with my writers group this morning.
    ~Heidi

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Heidi. I pray it’s an encouragement to them too! Would you be so kind and tweet about it?

      • http://www.heidikreider.com/ Heidi Kreider

        I did… I’m sorry I didn’t think to do that first. Thanks for asking and reminding me. ; )

  • http://www.facebook.com/LindseyMHartz Lindsey Hartz

    This is fabulous Mary – thank you for the encouragement and honesty here!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      My pleasure, Lindsey!

  • http://www.lawrencewilson.com/p/about-me.html Lawrence W. Wilson

    Great advice, Mary. I remember the courage it took to submit my first article–now 25 years ago! You gotta start somewhere.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s awesome, Larry! How are you?

      • http://www.lawrencewilson.com/p/about-me.html Lawrence W. Wilson

        Doing well, thanks. Have another high schooler graduating this year (no. 5 of 6)!

        • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

          Wow. So many launches!

  • BillintheBlank

    Thanks for the encouraging words, Mary. Just experienced some gravel and thorns yesterday. At least the stinging means we’re no longer numb, right?
    Faithful in little = faithful in much.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Sorry for the gravel and thorns (oh how they can be plenty!). Yes, and the stinging means you are trying!

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