Heal from the past

We all Need a Thumbs Up

12 Comments 13 June 2012

The other day when I went running, face red, sun hot, feet tired, a lady drove by. She nodded at me, then gave me a thumbs up as I ran.

It seriously made my day.

It’s as if she knew. She KNEW I needed to be encouraged just then as the huffing and puffing commenced in all its huffy and puffiness. Such a simple, small act that I still remember a week later.

The truth is, we all need a thumbs up every once in awhile. And if that is true, then it’s also true that all those other people out there need one too.

Today, I have an assignment for you. Find a person who seems to need a thumbs up–a runner, a checkout lady, a bagger, a random person at the post office. Don’t necessarily jut your thumb heavenward. Go a step beyond. Say something. Make eye contact. Smile. Encourage. Notice something cool about someone else.

A little bit ago, we went to our favorite restaurant in Rockwall, Chiloso. As we did, a woman left. She was stunning to me, wearing an impeccable outfit with a broad, open smile. I caught her eye and said, “You look beautiful today.” She smiled and said thanks.

I have no idea if that blessed her or not, but I do know that if someone said that to me at Chiloso, I’d be happy. However I love to be encouraged then becomes how I encourage others.

This can be a Debbie Downer world we live in. We toil. We fret. We stress over money. We get old. Folks bother us or diss us. We can’t seem to stay in shape.

No matter. It’s time to shed that downer persons, always being introspective, and become the kind of person who gives thumbs up to beleaguered runners.

Your challenge: Find a stranger, then encourage them. Then report back to me here. I want to hear your stories.

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  • jeedoo

    No surprise to you, Mary, but I LOVE this! Encouraging people is one of the greatest things we can do! Will look for more opportunities today!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I agree, Judy. You are a true encourager.

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    Sounds like a fun challenge Mary! I’m doing it today.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Let us know what happened, Joe.

  • http://www.NatalieSharpston.com/ Natalie Sharpston

    Checkout lines were busy at Target the other day. I got in line
    behind a man who only needed to buy a birthday card. In front of him was
    a woman with a ton of stuff. Her transition was taking forever — I
    think her
    stack of 50 or so coupons was at least a quarter inch thick. The man
    sighed dramatically several times and
    looked around with irritation. I made a comment to him, trying to get
    him
    to relax. “Dang, that woman is so organized. Look at all those coupons. I
    wonder how much she’s going to save. That’s so awesome.” Suddenly he
    ran away. Ran! To another line that appeared to be moving faster. I
    asked coupon lady how much she saved. $67! I said, “Good job! I’m so
    impressed!” She said, “Why not? It’s stuff I use anyway.” But she had a
    happy smile on her face as she walked away with her husband who wheeled
    their booty out the door.

    It felt good not to be in a hurry, to appreciate a woman who used
    coupons (it’s an art – one I wish I had patience for), and to compliment
    her in front of her husband. I hope I made her day – she certainly made
    mine.

  • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

    i’m going to do this.
    a similar “thumbs up” moment happened for me about 6 months ago, and i still remember it. i was at the gym after not having gone in a while, and i set a mat out to do some crunches. i sat down and looked in the mirror and could see a lady behind me who was lifting weights. she’s a regular there, although i don’t know her name or anything about her. anyway, she made eye contact with me in the mirror and smiled directly at me. i smiled back.

    it felt so good to be acknowledged, to be noticed. and it was encouraging. i felt like i mattered! and i still remember that moment. i bet she has no idea that i still remember that 6 months later and how much it meant to me. all she did was look at me and smile. that’s all! but it made a difference in my day, it made me feel important, and i felt loved. i guess you just never know how things like that impact others. it makes me want to have a positive impact like that, to make a difference, even if it’s small, in someone’s life.

  • http://www.devotionalminute.com/ Donnie Davis

    Encouraging post!
    Great “To-Do” that will give encouragement to others.
    This just might be what everyone needs:
    “Be kinder than necessary, everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.”

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, love that about kindness.

  • http://twitter.com/GodGirlGail Gail Molsbee Morris

    Laurie and Mary, God must have us all on the same page. I wrote about this just last week. I’m always encouraged when I encourage someone else. Funny how that happens. @GodGirlGail

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      He wants His followers to encourage, that’s for sure!

  • http://lauriewallin.com/ Laurie Wallin

    Ok, now you’re reading MY mail :) . I’ve been working on this topic all week on my FB page (from the angle of getting past insecurities to meet new friends) and this is the WHY behind the what. Sharing it forward. And since my baby just started swim lessons this week, I know I’ll have lots of opportunities to do your assignment here!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, encourage those swim mommies! :)

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