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Wanna Grow? Do Scary Things

13 Comments 13 September 2012

Last week I did two scary things. I ran with some people in my local running club, and I ran the farthest I’ve ever run.

You have to understand that I’m no athlete. I may have done a few sprint triathlons, but all were accomplished by sheer force of grit, a lot of fear, and a nervous stomach. I’m mostly a wimp.

So for me to actually dare to run with other people when I feel so insecure took a bit of courage. And then to run seven miles when I’d never done that took even more.

I’m not writing this to toot my horn. I want to make a point. If we want to grow, we have to choose to do risky, scary things. The tendency of us as we age is to cocoon, to make things more and more safe, to eliminate risk. We settle into routine. We grow more and more selfish with our time. We prefer ordinary to risk.

I feared I was falling into that complacency trap, so I signed up to die (i.e. run a half marathon). It scares the bejeebers out of me. Not only am I growing (muscle!), but I’m stretching in my walk with Jesus. I have to trust Him more, rely on Him when I’m freaked out, and lean into Him when fear rises up within me.

If you want to grow in your relationship with Christ, take a risk. Do something that scares you. Listen to the still quiet voice of your savior, hear what He says, and then do it. You won’t regret the risk. In fact, afterward, you’ll feel a gigantic sense of joy and accomplishment.

Q4u:

What holds you back from taking a risk today? What scary thing is God asking you to try? How often do you let fear get in your way of truly trusting God?

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  • http://www.nickcerda.org/ Nick Cerda

    For 15 years I’ve been threatening to write a book. Despite the encouragement of so many friends I managed to postpone it for all these years. Truth is, I was scared. I fool people since I do take risks, but they are calculated risks. Rarely do I throw it all out there.

    So I sat down the other day and started working. What resulted was a short 1000 word ebook about our adoption story that I sent to 20 family and friends. I felt really vulnerable and afraid. In fact, I still do but it was worth it.

    My new motto, at least for this week is, “make ‘one day’ today”. “One day” I’m going to…

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes!!! Nick, I’m so proud of you for writing it and getting it out to friends. Now just do that 60 more times (for a 60,000 word book!)

  • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

    fear gets in the way all the time…it’s like you’re trapped, stuck.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      It’s easier to rationalize action away.

      • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

        yeah, so true

  • SimplySurrender

    Oh for gracious me! How in the world did you get in my head! LOL
    I have never been a risk taker – cocooned – stuck in ordinary – yep, that is me. Lately, I have I have felt God impressing on me to leave my ordinary. I can find a million excuses why not to take the steps. I can find a million reasons to delay. Yet, I am equally afraid that if I don’t do this now – I will never have another chance.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Sorry to invade your brain. Yes, it’s time to take a risky step, then another…

  • Kristin

    My scary things. . .stepping out of comfort zones over the years. . .joined a large evangelism class. . .the last 4 years started a blanket ministry and went out into the homeless community. . .and now, writing a book, something I have never done before. Scary! But you’re right, with each scary thing I do, God has grown me and I am grateful for each experience.
    Now signing up for a triathalon? I’m just not THAT brave ;) I’ll pray for you:)
    Kris
    http://www.ponderingsbykris.blogspot.com

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks for the exercise prayers. I need them! And woohoo for the evangelism class and the homeless ministry.

  • http://dogfuranddandelions.com/ Elizabeth @ DogFurandDandelion

    This is something simple, but I’m sharing about my chronic illness this week on my blog. And I was scared to write! It digs deep into the personal, the things I try not to think about, the things that can threaten to discourage and overwhelm me. But it’s been worth it, as people are being helped and encouraged by the series, and finding out that they’re not alone! Thanks for a good challenge, Mary. Very timely.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Good job, Elizabeth. That’s hard to do but really important. You’ll set folks free!

  • http://www.facebook.com/leebirdmerrill Lee Walker Merrill

    I got an email from the editor who took my proposal at She Speaks. She wants me to do some revisions and resubmit.She sounds very interested. My first response was sheer thrill! Is this my time? I’ve been working on the changes she requested, but I keep finding myself finding other things to write or do instead. I think I’m scared. Scared of the thought of my book being published and ending up on the shelves of the Dollar Tree two weeks later. And scared that the book will be wildly successful to the point that I won’t be able to respond to every email or tweet I’m sent. Shoot…I know there’s a lot of yes’s that have to happen before I have to worry about either of those extremes, but that doesn’t keep me from feeling skittish.

    I will be brave, Mary. I will quit stalling and get the revised proposal to that editor asap.
    Thanks.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Be brave, Lee! Do those edits! It’s rare that an editor will give feedback and ask for revisions. Jump on it.

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