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Sometimes Speakers Forget the Holy Spirit

32 Comments 02 October 2012

Recently I stumbled over a verse Paul wrote. Why? Because it stopped me in my tracks.

I’ve spent the last year honing my speaking skills, getting coaching, hearing hard feedback, seeking advice. All good stuff, mind you. But then I read this:

“I may be unskilled as a speaker but I am not lacking in knowledge.” 2 Cor 11:6, NLT

Whoa. Wait. Paul was unskilled? The man responsible for a bulk of the New Testament wasn’t an eloquent speaker? He didn’t use the right methods? He stumbled over his words?

Read on in another passage if you don’t believe me:

“When I came to you, brothers, I did not come with eloquence or superior wisdom as I proclaimed to you the testimony about God. For I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. I came to you in weakness and fear, and with much tremblingMy message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on men’s wisdom, but on God’s power.” 1 Corinthians 2:1-5.

Oh dear Jesus. Help me! While I believe it’s always good to strive for excellence, and I believe that preparing beforehand is an indication of your love for your audience, I cannot turn my back on Paul’s words. I’ve found them to be true this past year. When I let go, got rid of all the speaking critics, and truly laid down my words before the Lord, that’s when His spirit empowered the message. When I fretted about the message, its mechanics and delivery, it thudded.

Have you encountered either scenario?

  1. A humble person shares a simple testimony and you’re rocked to your core.
  2. A skilled speaker delivers a canned speech he’s given 25 times. It almost seems like he is performing it.
I know Paul would applaud the first. Why? Because sometimes speakers forget the Holy Spirit. Sometimes they (me included) can forget it’s far less about the message’s perfection than it is about being a humble, submissive listener–one who gets out of the way so God can share His message through you in HIS power, not your prowess.
If you’re a speaker, please take these words seriously (not mine, Paul’s). You have a sacred duty to be connected well to the Holy Spirit. Your greatest messages are often delivered in your greatest weakness, not your technical genius. Feel free to share this message with other speakers. Participate in the comments. Wrestle a bit. I know I am.
I wonder how many speakers will get to heaven and watch their spoken words burn in the fire of God’s refinement. How many will remain? How many times will we fill a slot with words, yet devoid of God’s power?
Lord, I pray for me and I pray for other speakers that we would not glory in our presentations or our natural gifting to communicate, but that we would glory in You. Forgive us for manufacturing messages instead of waiting on You and hearing Your heart for an audience. Help us to be interruptible, always willing to change message even if it’s embarrassing or inconvenient or hurts our career. We want to be speakers with Your power. Forgive us for leaning on our own. Amen.

q4u: What was the most impacting speaker you’ve ever heard? Why?

 

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  • Marlene Salcher

    Wow, Mary, I saw this message and it really encouraged me. Last night at the Women of Faith Shelia Walsh talked about not being a perfect speaker, not being the perfect anything. I think in years past, because of my own feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. I shied away from a lot of things. I have spoken at some women’s events over the years and one time I remember leaving the event and thinking, I never want to do that again. And then another time, I can remember saying, Lord, You did a good job. Spirit-led anything is so much better than flesh-led (which means trying too hard to get it right). I’m still learning about letting Him do with me as He will; demonstrate Himself through my life. I believe that’s what we all want. Help us, Lord Jesus.

  • http://www.jeremybuzzard.com/ Jeremy Buzzard

    Wonderful post, Mary! So, so, so important for all of us who minister to anyone! I also wonder about when we stand before God.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Jeremy. We can wonder together…and rest in Jesus’ grace.

  • Glenda Childers

    I am speaking at a retreat in April … I so desire the Holy Spirit to be present through my words.

    Fondly,
    Glenda

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      And He will be!

  • http://juliesunne.com/ Julie Sunne

    This is a problem for writers as well, Mary. At least for me. I force a topic, a post, a chapter instead of letting the Holy Spirit lead. I try to make it perfect in my own power–as if I can. Most of us who are trying to create something of value fall into this trap. So thankful you addressed this difficult issue.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I hear you. I have struggled with that too.

  • Kennisha

    Thank you for writing this today, Mary. I needed to read this one. I’m just starting to have speaking events and it’s my prayer the Holy Spirit would speak through me each time. Thanks for this reminder!

    Hugs,
    Kennisha

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s so great to hear Kennisha!

  • http://hissongtomeshalom.blogspot.com/ Mandy

    In recent weeks, I have been moved beyond belief by the heartfelt words of my dear friend, Amy O’Rourke, whose police offer husband was killed in the line of duty. She has spoken publicly a few times about forgiveness and faith. (I shared your post with her today.) Here is most of what she shared (impromptu) at her husband’s funeral: http://www.clickondetroit.com/news/Uncut-speech-Officer-O-Rourke-s-wife/-/1719418/16605568/-/fupb9wz/-/index.html

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks for the link. Wow.

  • http://www.moretobe.com/ Elisa Pulliam

    I couldn’t agree more, Mary. I count on the Spirit. I’m a mess when I don’t.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Me too.

  • http://www.love-laugh-learn.com/ Deanna

    Mary,

    I know that we all have a natural inclination towards performance, but sometimes I think I have even more than is right!! I very seriously wanted to study and be an actor until my early 20s. :)
    In some ways, I believe that God uses that natural desire to help me connect when I speak, but only when I hand that desire over to him. And my best speaking has probably been when I’ve been sick or sleep deprived…when there was SO less of me in it!
    Like writing, speaking has been a journey of learning, leaning and trusting.
    Love hearing the journey of other Christian speakers!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I do too. Just call me Drama Queen.

  • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

    One of the most impacting speakers I’ve ever heard is Arty Vangeloof @artyateastside. He spoke at a Christian high school camp that I attended, where I was a camp counselor. His message was compelling, and he was so passionate and excited about God. He wanted all of us to know Him and trust Him like he did. As he shared his experiences and told stories, he had everyone’s rapt attention. I truly believe the Holy Spirit spoke through him. When he was done speaking, it left me wanting more of God and wanting to pursue Him like never before. I still remember the message even years later today.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s the mark of a Spirit-infused speaker, if you go away hungering for more of God.

      • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

        i agree! :)

  • http://www.tanyadennisbooks.com/ Tanya Dennis

    I commented on facebook about God’s perfect timing in this post. So often we feel the need to be perfect in order to reach anyone with the message we feel God has given us. In reality we need only be open to the Holy Spirit and genuine, fully aware of who we are before Him, so that He may move through us to reach those in front of us. Thanks, again, Mary for being that type of person.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I’m thankful this post was in perfect timing for you!

  • http://www.deidrariggs.com/ Deidra

    Two years ago, at Deeper Still, I heard Priscilla Shirer speak and I can still recite much of what she said that day. The woman was anointed and so connected to the Holy Spirit. Just last month, I talked with someone else who had been there and, though we’d never spoken with each other about Priscilla’s message, when I referenced the message, this other woman knew exactly what I was talking about. It was like that old game show, Name That Tune. Truly incredible.

    I needed this post today, Mary. Trust me. And, thank you.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      What a great story, Deidra. I so look forward to hanging out with you in a few days.

  • Pam Kumpe

    Last Sunday in a recovery center where I hold a church service some 60 ladies were in a attendance. One of the girls gave her testimony of finding Jesus in rehab, and of His finding her. She told of her life as a prostitute, a drug addict, and a Buddhist … only for God to send a praying pod-mate in her cell who prayed for her daily.
    And this young lady remembered something — her granny used to say, “God loves you.” That childhood comment to her rose up in her, and she thought, “Granny wouldn’t fib.” She knelt in her pod with her roomy and asked Jesus to be her Savior. Her honesty, tears and transparency in retelling her journey prepared hearts and 20 ladies gave their hearts to Jesus that morning.

    … Eloquent talk? No. Loving and sincere testimony? Yes. Holy Spirit present? Yes. And changed lives? Absolutely.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I love that story, Pam. Thanks for sharing.

  • Kristi

    You are going to be amazing at Allume!! It will be all Him and He will use it what He says through you for months and years to come!!!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Ah, thanks. I hope so. :)

  • Anne Peterson

    The most impacting speaker I had ever heard was my Bible teacher, Lois Peterson who has since gone to be with the Lord. She didn’t like speaking to large crowds, but each week she spoke to about 40 of us on Tuesday nights and about 100 on Wednesday nights in her home. The reason she impacted me and hundreds who went through her basement week after week is because she knew Him personally. She would study for her lessons, but be led by the Holy Spirit. She spoke about someone she loved, someone who loved her. I have heard eloquent speakers but honestly some of them know their script well and that’s what comes across. I only see them.

    On the other side, I have spoken to small groups of audiences God has provided and I listen carefully for the Holy Spirit’s leading. One time in particular I felt God tell me, “I want you to tell them about when you were bitter.” My first reaction was, Lord, you want me to tell them what??” And yet, when I opened up and shared the struggle I had with bitterness it opened a door. People approached me afterwards and told me about their struggles with bitterness. Speaking is a privilege. We get to share what God speaks to our hearts.

    I appreciate your blog today. If speaker aren’t sharing what the Holy Spirit wants them to share, they really have nothing to say.

    One time I heard a well-known speaker and afterwards I went up to him to introduce him to someone who had questions about the Lord. The speaker was not interested. He was eloquent, really eloquent. At the time I was a new believer, and it just surprised me.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I love Lois already (even if she’s with the Lord.) Thanks for sharing about her. I also have had an encounter with a big name speaker who dismissed me. I felt so small.

  • Jane

    Thank you for these thoughts, Mary. Very challenging and aobering thought to realize that apart from the power of the sweet Holy Spirit my words will simply be dross at the Judgment Seat of Christ!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Which is why it’s so important for us to stay near to Him. :)

  • Mollie Lyon

    I woke this morning hearing a praise song, “Glory to God” I can’t remember it exactly as it has been replaced by another. But this post seems so appropriate as we jockey for significance in our speaking or writing or any endeavor for that matter. Do good works so it may glorify your Father in Heaven.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, so true. Amen.

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