Heal from the past, Kingdom Uncaged

Need your sweet help

23 Comments 22 October 2012

I am writing this post under duress, not the stressful kind, but the sweet kind–if there can be such a thing. My webmaster Thomas told me I had to write this post. Or else.

I balked.

I very much value you, your time, your heart. The last thing I want to do is be a Me Monster and beg you to do stuff on my behalf. I don’t want to be one of those marketers who constantly chats about her product, her downline, her-her-her.

I resonate deeply with Toby Mac’s words in this song. Jesus can steal this book-writing show anytime He wants.

But the truth is, last week, during my book launch, I wasn’t able to put much of me into it. With Julia’s illness, and the mystery surrounding it, I didn’t have much energy to do anything other than pray, cry, and sleep (if I could).

Thankfully, my launch team (who rock rock rock) had my back. And several of you were champions of Twitter and Facebook, letting folks know about the book. The success of last week rides on your shoulders and the heft of my launch team and publisher.

But now I’ve climbed out of the hole of last week and it’s time to ask a favor.

Would you be willing to purchase a copy of Everything today? Or tomorrow? Or someday? Many of you already have (and I’m so grateful). If you can’t afford it, visit Trochia’s Facebook page this week. They are giving away 20 copies of the book. If you purchase by tomorrow, you’ll receive $240 of freebies.

If you’ve bought the book, would you be so kind as to leave a review on Amazon, Barnes and Noble and/or CBD? (Just click those links to be taken right to the book’s page). I want an honest review. If you feel it merits one star, by golly, give it one star (*) If it’s just a three, plunk down three stars (***). I really don’t mind. This little act of writing a few sentences will help the book gain exposure.

Why did I write this book?

I wrote it because I struggle like you to see the beauty in today. I sometimes trade Jesus’ kingdom for my own empire. I worry too much. I absorb myself with my own issues, forgetting that Jesus wants to help me. In short, I fall short. And yet, there’s this infectious, sweet, knowable grace that Jesus gives. I felt it last week in the hospital next to Julia–my helplessness combined with Jesus’ goodness sustained me.

Jesus is real, folks.

And it may be that we catch little glimpses of that along the way, but those glimpses are what keeps us walking forward, day in and day out.

I’ve learned that I no longer need to be defined by my was statements. I’m now defined by “am” statements. And I wanted to share that powerful truth with you.

I was sexually molested. I am treasured, cared for, and loved by Jesus.

See how turning around that statement changes my identity? I want that for you too.

When I balked at Thomas’ suggestion that I write this post asking for your help, he said this:

“I’m going to do some Socratic reasoning with you.”

“OK,” I said.

“Do you believe Everything will change people’s lives for the better?”

“Yes, I wholeheartedly believe that,” I said.

He asked, “And will people be set free?”

“By God’s grace, yes.”

Then, “Will this tick off the enemy?”

Me: “I’m guessing so.”

Thomas: “Well, then fight back. Push back. It’s okay to promote.”

He did have a point, though I still struggle with the personal promotion thing.

So there’s my request all naked out there in the blogosphere. If you’d like to read Everything, pick up a copy, however you want. Bookstore. Library. Online store. Steal it (just kidding. Stealing everything is NOT a good idea). And write an honest review. I’d so appreciate it.

Some other tangible things you can do to help out:

  • Pray for me, for the book, that God would put the book into people’s hands who uniquely need it at this point in their journey.
  • Tweet: Find new joy in your Jesus journey. Grab a copy of #Everythingbook by @MaryDeMuth http://amzn.to/yxEeaz
  • Visitthe blog tour. Make a comment or two, or share a link.
  • If you write a review, share that on Facebook. Just copy and paste. :)

Well, I’ve done it. Now Thomas won’t have to enact dire consequences on me. Thanks for reading this, and thanks for anything you’ve done or will do to help get the word out. I so appreciate it. You’re a blessing.

Hoping NOT to be a Me Monster,

Mary

P.S. In case you need to know what a Me Monster is, check out this short clip from my fave comedian Brian Regan:

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  • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

    Thanks so much for all of your comments and winsome grace.

  • http://twitter.com/AndreaJClunesV Andrea C. Velásquez

    Ahh, I would most definitely buy your book, if I wasn’t so broke right now. If the giveaway is open to people outside the US, I’m gonna try my luck there and see if, by God’s grace, I get a copy. But, in the meantime, I wish you the best and hope your book sells well. And I pray to God I’ll be able to get my hands on it someday!

    Hugs~

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      It’s certainly worth a try. I would imagine it would be okay!

  • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

    Bought it today! Can’t wait to read it! :)

  • nas1497

    Mary, I so appreciate your honesty. There is something that is so hard in promoting ourselves. I so get it- smacks of pride, narcissism and arrogance in the wrong voice. But I hear your heart. You have something to say to those who are where you were. Where we all were before the redeeming love of Jesus worked that miracle that changed WHAT you were into WHO you are! Rest easy, God’s Will will be done for the book. Praying for you and Julia! N

  • Dolores E. Green

    Mary,

    We love YOU and we so understand where you are coming from so rest assured that your friends have your back Sweetie. I will leave you a review this week. Hugs! I am still praying for you and your precious family and I pray Julia is MUCH better..:) Hugs..Dolores E. Green

  • Pam M.

    I also find it extremely difficult to self promote. Like Deanna Wiseburn commented here, that’s also why I don’t have loads of readers on my blog. I guess I just don’t have the chutzpah to push it. If you read it, I’m grateful and happy. If you don’t….oh well. LOL. Anyway, Mary — I bought Everything the day it came out. I’m on Chapter Five (when it comes to books of this nature, I just can’t breeze through them. Too much thought provoking stuff. I want it to STICK). I will write an honest review of it as soon as possible.

    Thank you for all you do…and for Everything. ;)

    Be blessed,
    Pam

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Laura-Bennet/1346261868 Laura Bennet

    Mary, you couldn’t be any kind of a monster if you tried! I can understand how hard it must be to promote yourself. Maybe it helps to think that you’re promoting God’s message for us rather than yourself? After all, that’s really what it is and you have simply been the vehicle…the vessel for writing and now for promoting the message God wants us to hear. Maybe this verse helps:

    “…Pray for us too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ…Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should.” Col. 4:3-4

    Maybe promoting your book is part of praying that God opens a door for his message?

    I will gladly write reviews :)

  • Deanna Wiseburn

    Mary, I apologize, it is not on the correct post. I tried to comment on your guest post, and it doesn’t appear to be showing up.

    I didn’t know the background for that verse, but the funny thing is that I had always taken that verse to mean that God has a plan for us, that was good, in the midst of our lives. I learned early on that giving in to God in my life, didn’t necessarily equal easy, in fact more often than not it equaled being tested, and attacked by Satan. But as I continue to grow in God, I continue to believe that God does have a plan for my life, for good and not harm. Not as a form of escaping where I am, but embracing that where I am, and have been, is a part of my message.

  • Kathy Collard Miller

    Just ordered by kindle. Look forward to reading and commenting.

  • Margaret

    I agree with Heather–loved the way you approached this and your heart! Share your message!

  • Heather Kopp

    Mary, I loved the way you approached this. I so get it. I’m on my way to Amazon to buy your book, not because you asked but because I want to. Yay for you.

  • http://www.tammyhelfrich.com/ Tammy Helfrich

    I agree with Thomas! You have a message to share, and people are changed by reading your book. Promote away! Sending lots of prayers your way, and doing all I can to promote the book.

  • Deanna Wiseburn

    I also hate self promoting. That’s why I have so few readers on my blog. :) One day I promise I will get a copy of the book. Right now on limited funds, and I can’t buy another one. But it is on my list of things I want.

    Know that you are precious and that you did a good job with this post. God is using you!!

  • theplumbers31wife

    Mary, my name is meredith and I experienced a time spent in a major children’s hospital with my son. I can relate to your time right now. My family will be praying for your Julia. I bought your book. I shared it. I’ll write a review. Keep fighting. Push the enemy right back.

  • Jody Collins

    Praying and will order–promise. anything that says Jesus is everything–well, that’s something.

  • http://alwaysalleluia.com/ Kris Camealy

    Excellent!! Praying, Mary!! So grateful to be on your launch team!! Praise God for this book and the work He is doing through you!

  • Sharon O

    I would love to purchase a book can you send me one with a autograph as in your name? I just got Emily’s Weirenga’s book and am in the middle of reading that one. Blessings to you.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I can send you a signed bookplate (sticker) that you can put in the book. Would that help? Email me at Mary @ MaryDeMuth.com

  • Laura L. Smith

    Love Toby Mac and this song – thank you for sharing – it is so something I crave too – wanting my writing to do well, but wanting it to be for God’s glory not mine – just want to let you know there were several times I was reading Everything and I was brought to my knees in prayer. Thanks for the inspiration!

  • http://www.facebook.com/gillian.marchenko Gillian Marchenko

    Of course, Mary. I will purchase a copy today and continue to promote Everything. God is using you mightily …

  • http://www.facebook.com/ShifferDiane Diane Shiffer

    I know what you mean… I also hate the self-promotion thing, which is why I’ll never be a successful author (my lack of talent and drive might also be a contributing factor, but let’s not talk about that ;-}) I’m praying that your book will be very successful and the Lord would do mighty things through it.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks for the sweet prayers. I so appreciate it, Diane.

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