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Leadership Lesson: Pride Will Ruin You

25 Comments 16 August 2012

In my adventure through Chronicles, I bumped into great kings and awful kings–all men with flaws, yet some seemed to sink into sin and others remained faithful to the end.

Uzziah started well. He didn’t finish well. Why? Pride. Read on to see what awful things he did all because of pride.

“But when he had become powerful, he also became proud, which led to his downfall. He sinned against the LORD his God by entering the sanctuary of the LORD’s Temple and personally burning incense on the altar.

Azariah the high priest went in after him with eighty other priests of the LORD, all brave men. They confronted King Uzziah and said, “It is not for you, Uzziah, to burn incense to the LORD. That is the work of the priests alone, the sons of Aaron who are set apart for this work. Get out of the sanctuary, for you have sinned. The LORD God will not honor you for this!”

Uzziah was furious and refused to set down the incense burner he was holding. But as he was standing there with the priests before the incense altar in the LORD’s Temple, leprosy suddenly broke out on his forehead. When Azariah and the other priests saw the leprosy, they rushed him out. And the king himself was eager to get out because the LORD had struck him.

So King Uzziah had leprosy until the day he died. He lived in isolation, excluded from the Temple of the LORD. His son Jotham was put in charge of the royal palace, and he governed the people of the land.” 2 Chronicles 26:16-21 NLT

Honestly, this is my  number one fear as an author. I’ve seen it happen far too many times. An author starts out small and humble, willing to learn the ropes. Then he/she gains a modicum of success and it shoots straight to the ego, enlarging it beyond what it should be. Pride enters in. The author becomes a Me Monster, unable to hear or receive criticism.

The person who was initially excited about writing words to build God’s kingdom morphs into a person hell-bent on their own kingdom.

Uzziah did this. He let pride have its awful way. And it literally ruined him. He became so proud, he violated the sanctuary of God, elevating himself to a priest, thinking he was above reproach. Though the priests begged him to leave, he didn’t.

So God struck him with leprosy, which meant he couldn’t even participate in the community of God. Exiled because of his condition, he died in humiliation.

Pride kills, folks. There is no room for it in the kingdom. Whether you’re a speaker, author, pastor, or ministry leader, it can subtly entice you. Don’t let it.

Q4U: Have you ever experienced someone becoming too big for their britches? What happened? Why do you think it’s hard for prideful people to repent?

 

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  • http://www.love-laugh-learn.com/ Deanna

    I’ve always believed that IF I’m ever successful writing or speaking, it will only be because God made it happen. Praying I always believe this!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, so true. I believe that too.

  • http://twitter.com/tekemestudios Tekeme Studios

    My pride is one of the main reasons I don’t write anymore… I find it difficult to write without pride. And I’m not even successful or known by anyone. I can’t imagine how much pride I would have if I had become someone well-known. Yet, I’m sure there are many well-known people who are more humble than I — a nobody — will ever be!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I’ve seen some incredibly gracious authors who are humble and amazing. I view them as my heroes.

  • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

    Good points! I really like this post, you are right, it can subtly entice you.

    Fame, money, success, promotions…they are all things that can make us prideful. It feels good to be known. Everyone wants to feel important, and secure. But we can wrap those things into our identity so much that we think it’s all us, and then we become proud. And we want all the credit. Even though our identity is in Christ, and that is what really matters most, it can be hard to stay focused on that. Maybe pride also comes in when we forget who we are in Him?

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      This would make a great article, Abby.

      • http://twitter.com/abbysnews Abby Van Wormer

        Thanks, Mary! :)

  • http://twitter.com/RachelWojo Rachel Wojnarowski

    When I read this post, the words “In the year that King Uzziah died” immediately came into my mind. Isaiah 6:1 ”
    In the year that king Uzziah died I saw also the Lord sitting upon a throne, high and lifted up, and his train filled the temple.” When we stop giving God the glory He deserves, our self-glory can only be temporary at best. Thanks for this important reminder!!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Ooooh, yes! Great insight.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=686442200 Kristine McGuire

    Thank you for these wise words of caution, Mary. God is always the One who deserves the honor and praise. God first and always.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Amen. So true.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=795285429 Sovann Pen

    I think one reason it’s hard is that success and accolades numb our pain, our feelings of inadequacy. It’s hard to go back to that. We believe that it will satisfy because truthfully it is comforting, at least short-term. Then we have to shoot being/saying the next great thing. Thanks for this reminder today Mary.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, agreed. We need to feel important to cover up that inferiority.

  • Nicole Petrino-Salter

    When pride hits me it comes in the form of having to convince myself I’m “worthy” of doing something too. Pride is always me-centered. Those of us who hate to be wrong because it piles on to our always-in-place feelings of inferiority struggle with the “I can do this as well as . . .” It’s a subtle thing sometimes. Not good.
    Thanks, Mare. You’re a gem.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Well said. I do think inferiority has something to do with pride.

  • http://twitter.com/GodGirlGail Gail Molsbee Morris

    I don’t care if I’ve written a #1 best seller (just dreamin’), God always has something for me to learn from godly writers, beginners or experts.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      True. I want to be teachable like that, Gail.

  • Lindsey Bell

    Mary, I remember telling my husband awhile back…If I ever become a successful author, I want to be like Mary DeMuth. She still cares about us “little people.” Great reminder today.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Wow, that makes me smile!

  • annepeterson

    I remember years and years ago being a cashier for a grocery food chain. I was chosen to be what they called the “head checker,” while our regular one went on vacation. They taught me how to balance the books and I was supervisor over the other cashiers. (which happened to be my age). The whole thing went to my head and I became a tyrant. The fact I had been chosen went straight to my swelling head. There is a spirit of entitlement that rears its’ ugly head. Reminding you how special you must be to have been chosen. I also think pride wears other outfits that we don’t easily recognize. Thanks for the post, Mary.

    Can I just share that I have been struggling with pride more recently as I’ve tried building up my readership on my blog? I did fine as the numbers rose, but as they declined I felt deflated. Would love to know how to keep a balance there, or if anyone else has struggled with this.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      It’s so hard with numbers and blog stats. They don’t truly measure impact, so feeling happy when they’re up and sad when they’re down is fruitless. You never know how your words will bless people. You could have a small number day, but someone might’ve been set free. You could have a large number day with no discernable impact. The best way to deal with it is to constantly lay the numbers into Jesus’ hands.

  • http://www.waynestiles.com/ Wayne Stiles

    Success can become a huge vacuum when an author can’t walk away from the next book if life balance demands it. I think we hurt ourselves when we assume feeding success (a.k.a. “sustaining our platform”) is always the will of God.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Well said. Sometimes God calls us to do paradoxical things. The way up is often down (and on our knees).

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    Great point Mary. Pride is a killer.

    I think it’s hard for someone to repent of pride because of the pride. The vicious cycle it creates causes one to become entrenched deeper and deeper. Before they know it they’re over their head in pride.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      So true. Pride creates its own monster.

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