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Leadership lesson: Be willing to walk away

23 Comments 15 August 2012

Reading about the era of the kings in Israel can give a person whiplash. Good king, evil king, super evil king, average king, bad king. Lather, rinse, repeat.

But recently I read about a good king who did something very surprising. His name? Amaziah. Here’s what he did. He organized the army, then decided to hire warriors from Israel.

This is when the kingdom was divided, and Israel was being naughty with a capital N. Watch what happens next.

“But a man of God came to the king and said, “O king, do not hire troops from Israel, for the LORD is not with Israel. He will not help those people of Ephraim!  If you let them go with your troops into battle, you will be defeated no matter how well you fight. God will overthrow you, for he has the power to help or to frustrate.”

Amaziah asked the man of God, “But what should I do about the silver I paid to hire the army of Israel?”

The man of God replied, “The LORD is able to give you much more than this!”

So Amaziah discharged the hired troops and sent them back to Ephraim. This made them angry with Judah, and they returned home in a great rage” (2 Chronicles 25:7-10, NLT).

Sometimes when victory comes near, and we want to rely on what seems to be the right things (powerful men), God reminds us that we should not trust in anything other than Him. We need to be willing to walk away. Amaziah did.

I experienced this recently. I had an opportunity that seemed very big. I felt uncomfortable with it, to be honest, but I battled whether I should let go of this situation or pursue it and violate my conscience.

The Lord was gracious to me. He sent me a man of God, in this case Bill Hybels from the Global Leadership Summit, who asked us all to close our eyes and listen to his questions. He asked us about integrity. And as he did, this situation fluttered to mind, then slammed me in the heart.

Would I walk away from what seemed like salvation? Or would I embrace the thing that might catapult my career, knowing that doing so would make it hard for me to look myself in the mirror?

In light of that, I walked away.

It reminds me of this verse: “What sorrow awaits those who look to Egypt for help, trusting their horses, chariots, and charioteers and depending on the strength of human armies instead of looking to the LORD, the Holy One of Israel.” Isaiah 31:1, NLT.

God has called us to trust in Him alone, no matter what the cost, no matter how foolish or weird it might be. He is bigger than horses. He is bigger than the mightiest warrior. Sometimes God says, to cut bait and run.

How about you? When has God asked you to walk away–even after you’d invested time, money and energy?

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  • http://www.facebook.com/brittany.l.ketter Brittany Lee Ketter

    This week! And I didn’t….and so now it is forceably being taken from me. But honestly I wonder, exactly how far is one expected to go given, “as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12). How much of that is my responsibility?
    And what about when giving it up is hurting me just to keep the peace….you can’t win. It hurts one way or the other.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      This sounds like a painful and complicated situation. May Jesus be the light in the midst of the darkness.

  • Jenbh

    Wow. Needed this this week, Mary, as I pray about some decisions to be made. Thank you!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      So glad you needed it, and God used it to confirm!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Cindy-Windham-Jones/100000640663630 Cindy Windham Jones

    I’ve had to walk away before. It’s a scary thing to do, but God does bless obedience and repays what you’ve given up to do it. Enjoyed reading this!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Cindy. Way to be brave.

  • http://michaelhyatt.com/ Michael Hyatt

    I love this. What a great application of that passage. I read it myself recently and completely missed this application. Excellent!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Mike. It really struck me that he was willing to let go of his hard work and money.

  • http://www.heidikreider.com/ Heidi Kreider

    another great post… more to chew on. When i can find the words, I’ll share…

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I can’t wait to hear, Heidi.

  • http://www.newequus.wordpress.com/ Mindy @ New Equus

    Wow Mary…this is great! It also brings to mind walking away from people as well. I’ve had to let go of relationships to God’s hands because I knew in my heart it was the right thing to do. Recently we had some really good friends leave our church. It was hard to not try and “fix” things so they would stay. God told me that no matter how many bandages we tried to put on things it wasn’t going to make any difference.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, I so agree. I’ve had to do that a lot. it always grieves me. But God knows best how to order our relationships.

  • http://www.waynestiles.com/ Wayne Stiles

    What a great lesson in faith– especially financially. Amaziah shoveled spadefuls of money to the Israelites but didn’t try to justify his bad investment by continuing with it. He trusted God for the loss and moved on. I’ve loved this principle from Amaziah’s life for years. Thanks, Mary.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yeah, I’ve had some of those moments where I have lost money because I walked away. But it’s never easy!

  • Timothy Burns

    Nothing is harder than looking yourself in the heart, and asking if you really want what He wants. And nothing is more freeing than making the decisions that align ourselves with his best.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Agree, Timothy. Well said. That’ll tweet.

  • Diane McElwain

    This is great truth Mary. Thanks for posting.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      My pleasure, Diane.

  • http://www.jmlalonde.com Joe Lalonde

    Great post Mary.

    I’ve been thinking along the lines of this post and recently wrote a blog post called “Calling It Quits” where I discuss knowing when to give in and quit.

    There hasn’t been anything recently where God has called me to walk away but I hope I’m willing to listen when He does tell me that.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks Joe. I haven’t always been good at this (nor am I “good” at it now). But we all fall on grace.

  • Gladwell

    Mary,

    Wow. This article has blessed my day. I know what I need to do now. You are a God-sent!

    Blessings,

    Gladwell

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Gladwell, I’m so thankful. Your comment made my day.

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