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Caitlin Muir Lives Uncaged! (And a necklace giveaway)

15 Comments 20 January 2012

 

I’m excited to share Caitlin Muir’s answers to my live uncaged questions. She works for Author Media and blogs about the single life.

I’m offering another necklace giveaway! Yes! (And if you’re a boy, please enter because you could give this as a gift). This is another offering from Barberry and Lace. Here’s a pic:

To win, please answer the question at the bottom. Get more entries if you tweet or facebook a link back to this post. Thanks!

Here are my questions, and Caitlin’s answers follow close behind.

  1. What would it look like for you to live uncaged in 2012?
  2. What has prevented you from living a truly free and unencumbered life in the past?
  3. Give my readers advice. What’s one practical thing they can do this year to live uncaged? (This can be silly like dancing in the rain or serious like eat more chocolate.)
  4. Who in your life is an excellent example of living uncaged? Why?
  5. If you could design a Live Uncaged sweatshirt, what would it look like?

1. I think that living a “safe” life ends up smothering your soul. It may be comfortable at first, but slowly and surely, the safeguards you make will kill you. Stepping out in faith, trying new things, delighting in a rediscovered passion, those are the things that unwrap your soul and let it breathe again. In 2012, it means that I’m stepping away from my fears and insecurities. I’m getting involved in comment, taking chances with my writing, and getting serious about what it means to be a follower of Jesus.

2. Growing up, I believed a lot of lies. I had believed that just because I didn’t look like a model, people wouldn’t want to be my friend. I thought that even though I knew God offered grace, that His followers wouldn’t offer the same grace. There were many whispered lies that kept me from living vibrantly. Fear of rejection firmly being on the top of my list and it smothered me. It wasn’t until I started realizing that God loved me (and actually liked me!) that I was able to start replacing those lies with God’s truth. It’s been a life changing experience. Knowing that someone loves you, flaws and all, gives a deep feeling of security. And once you have that security, watch out! The world is yours to be enjoyed.

3. Look in the mirror. Tell yourself that God loves you. If that seems cliched, tell yourself that He not only loves you but He likes you as well. Then make a list of things you want to do before you get old or boring. They can be as serious or as whimsical as you desire. Dare to cross them off. Need starters? Here’s my list of things I’m working on before I’m old/boring/30 (whichever comes first).

4. My younger sister Laura is a good example of someone who is living uncaged. When she started dating her husband, he gave her the support she needed to start living adventurously. She glows. Since she’s met her husband, she’s bought a motorcycle, climbed a mountain, and conquered her fear of the water so she could go snorkeling in Hawaii. While other wives are staying at home while their husbands are “off on an adventure with the boys”, my sister is out there having adventures with her husband. I think that’s pretty awesome.

5. I’m not a huge fan of sweatshirts. But if I had to design one, it would be fitted, more of a tunic length, and have a hood like this. I don’t know if you want to use that link or not. Someone forgot their pants. :)

Bio – Caitlin is a 20-something who writes about faith, love, and social media. Her motto is “Life is an adventure given to you by God – enjoy it!” When she’s not off adventuring in her convertible, she can be found reading, writing, or getting herself in all sort of mischief. You can connect with her at CaitlinMuir.com or follow her on Twitter here.

To win the necklace, answer this question:

How have you played it safe, and how will you break away from that in 2012?

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  • http://continuedwonder.blogspot.com/ Rachmiller4011

    I hold so much of myself back from being involved in church because I have gone through so much harm that I do not think I can go through again.  Praying to take one step at a time in Jesus strength. (married to a pastor).

  • kimberly

    well i have played it safe by not going for by drivers license which i should have by now. driving a car is not something im to excited about doing since  its out of my comfort zone. but im trying to break away from that by taking a course that i have been putting off for awhile now. 

  • http://twitter.com/RachelWojo Rachel Wojnarowski

    Put it on RachelWojo.com Facebook! Thanks.

  • http://twitter.com/RachelWojo Rachel Wojnarowski

    Tweeted the giveaway for ya! :)

  • http://twitter.com/RachelWojo Rachel Wojnarowski

    Hmmm. I’m not a huge risk taker to begin with…thinking on this! Trying to come up with something specific is difficult. I know that our family has events slated for 2012 that will definitely be outside my comfort zone!   I’m praying for grace to step out and be proactive in faith for those events. rwojnaro @ columbus dot rr dot com

  • Trezlen

    I’ve not ventured out and not let myself be known because of fear of what others would say. This year I am trusting that God has something great waiting for me and waiting for his word to dive off the cliff after it.

    trezlen at gmail dot com

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Stephanie-Ford/775977844 Stephanie Ford

    Great article, good questions and I enjoyed Caitlin’s answers. I feel like I have lived caged not being able and supported in flying high to achieve my dreams/desires. Then there is also the personal aspect that while I am not the same person I was in high school, I have probably held myself back from being everything I could be. I let others’ perceived expectations stop me from doing things. So in 2012, I want to grow leaps and bounds as a person. I want to learn about a variety of topics, try new things, meet new people, enjoy life and ultimately grow as a person.

  • Christinaharris562

    How have I played it safe? By living an unexamined life… Spiritually … Emotionally … I’m good at hiding in the shallow.. :) . I got married on the 1st of this year.. and SURPRISE! the defense mechanisms and the hiding doesnt lead to a happy relationship. Thankfully I married a man who’s further along in these areas and is more than willing to lead me. So in 2012 I want to keep moving toward a more examined life by allowing my husband to lead and teach me what that looks like, and by being willing to look at the deeper issues and not stay in the shallow surface issues. :)

    Christina

    Christinaharris562@gmail.com

  • Mary Tullila

    I Facebooked and shared this post…

    Mary Tullila @
    angeldove7dt@gmail.com

  • Mary Tullila

    I have played it “safe” by isolating myself emotionally too much this year. I am one left behind by Suicide Loss..it was safer to insulate my emotions in fears of rejection.. fears of losing it all again and so forth. I now feel like a caged bird yearning to fly and soar once again. God is whispering to me to MOVE..let go.. and live again. All it will take me is move to the outside of the walled up “birdcage” Ive made my soul inhabit. for wayy too long. And I intend too…8)
    God helping me.. Isaiah 61:1-3

  • Anonymous

    I liked this post on facebook.  My email addr. is Bobbieg@ charter.net. My friend Brenda Cox lives uncaged:)

  • http://www.mattandhannah.wordpress.com/ Hannah McKay

    I facebooked :)  

    hannahjmckay @ yahoo dot com.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Hannah, Random.org chose you as the winner! :)

  • http://www.countrymousetales.com/ Bekah

    I  hold relationships at a distance, and find it hard to connect with friends on anything deeper than a surface level.  How will I break away from that?  I think I need to be intentional about exposing my true self to others. 

  • http://www.mattandhannah.wordpress.com/ Hannah McKay

    I have worked a desk job for far too long. I have believed the lie that I can’t ever “make it” by pursuing my love for writing and photography…and cooking. Ha. In 2012, I am leaving my desk job behind and stepping out in faith with my writing, photography…and cooking ;)

    hannahjmckay @ yahoo dot com.

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