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Become an Email Jedi in 7 Steps

61 Comments 27 January 2012

jediI used to have tons of emails loitering in my inbox. They lurked there, making me feel guilty and stressed out. I don’t think they meant to, but by simply sitting there, they Darth Vader-ed me, heavy breathing and all. Certainly they were in cahoots with the Dark Side, and me, being a mere Padawan, felt helpless against their might. Sometimes they grew as lumborious (yep, made up that word) as slug-like slimeball Jabba the Hut–unwieldy and bothersome.

That is until I read this amazing post by Michael Hyatt, who I would call an Email Jedi of the Highest Order. He cuts away email with the Light Saber of Email Folders. He plays Jedi mind tricks on overwrought emails, responding to them nimbly and with courage. Because of that post, I daresay I’ve graduated to Email Jedi of the Second Order. I’ll joyfully sift through my correspondence saying, “These are not the emails you’re looking for.”

Here are 7 things that helped me achieve Jedi status.

  1. Unsubscribe from loops and lists and advertising of any kind. Choose the very best ones (the most important) and delete the rest. A good Jedi understands the power of focus. I used to subscribe to so many that they choked my inbox. Now when I receive unwanted ads or ezines, I hurry to the bottom of the email and quickly unsubscribe. If I did not subscribe, but someone has “kindly” subscribed me without my permission, I send them a form email that I’ve created in conjunction with a guest post by Laura Christianson of Blogging Bistro about the CAN SPAM laws. She gave me permission to use her well-written instructions. Most people who have received this email have thanked me. They simply didn’t know they were breaking the law by arbitrarily signing people up for their newsletters.
  2. Create compelling form replies for the most common questions you receive. I created several, including the CAN SPAM email. Others include my answers to: How can I become a published author? What’s the difference between self publishing and traditional publishing? What is your mailing address? (I have one for my PO Box and home address.) Will you read and endorse the book I haven’t yet finished? Will you endorse my soon-to-be published book? Can you meet with me so I can pick your brain? Will you please write my book? Would you please critique my manuscript for free? What new author advice do you have? I use Entourage and create this under the Signatures file. I typically personalize my reply, but having the bulk of what I say over and over and over again really helps cut back on my time. Another way to work through your pile of emails is to hire a Padawan, an assistant. A good assistant can sort through for you and forward your form replies.
  3. As often as you can, zero out your inbox. If you have 1000 emails in there, be a gutsy Jedi and declare an email holiday, then delete them all. Seriously, let the fully armed and operational Death Star decimate them. Start fresh. Chances are those people won’t even remember emailing you. From time to time you’ll see me tweet about making my inbox zero. Why? Because it feels awesome! To me it’s like operating with a clean desk. (And I do this without using email filters, as I haven’t figured them out yet!)
  4. Use folders, but don’t become a folder junkie. Let the Folders be with you, but not so much that they’re multiplying like midichlorians. Yes, delegate your emails into folders so you don’t lose track, or you know where they are logically, but don’t create 38 folders. Use just a few. Some of mine include: contact information, tasks, bills, article assignments, receipts, passwords and websites, interviews, speaking, and folders for my latest publishing projects. Keep it simple. Your system must make sense to you, and be a natural extension of your organizational style.
  5. Give yourself grace to respond to emails how you’re wired. Yoda, not everyone is. Nor should you try to be someone that you’re not. Some people set aside three times a day (or four or two or one) to check and respond to email. This works beautifully for them. But me? It doesn’t work. I’m better if I check them throughout the day. I have this strange, clutter-ability brain that thrives on variety. Find what fits you.
  6. Train yourself to make quick decisions. What wasted the most time for me was reading an email, then thinking about it, then not responding and keeping it there several days, then finally writing back with two sentences. I should’ve just responded in the moment. Much like a Jedi wielding a light saber, we must be quick to respond and confident in our choices. I think that’s the key is learning confidence. It’s insecurity that keeps us wavering. In the infamous words of Yoda, “Try? There is no try.” Just do it. Michael Hyatt gives three easy steps in this stage: Do, Delegate, and Defer. And don’t forget the elegant, yet powerful button DELETE.
  7. Keep the human perspective in mind. Even Jedis have friends and relationships. Instead of dreading opening up your inbox in the morning, anticipate it. Wonder afresh who will be contacting you and how you can serve them best. Email is a sweet opportunity to stop a moment and connect with another human being. It’s also one of the best things you do as a business to show respect and care to your customers. Recently I sent an email inquiry to Amazon. The person who received the email responded directly to my request, then alerted another person in the company to respond directly to me. You can bet I felt valued by them. Let’s not forget that all this typing and organizing actually boils down to people connecting with people.

I hope this post frees you up to take control of your inbox. I’ve been so thankful for Michael Hyatt’s post, but learned to reorient his tips to make sense to me. Perhaps soon you’ll become an email Jedi, maybe even this week! May the force be with you.

Q4u:

How about you? How are you an email Jedi? What do you struggle with? Any other pieces of email advice?

 

{Side note: This post is dedicated to Thomas Umstattd, my website guru, who understands the ways of the Force.}

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  • Miralee Ferrell

    I REALLY needed to read this. Especially Rule #3, although I’m not sure I’ll ever have the courage to follow it. But I’m going to try to pare it down from 300-450 to under 100. That in itself would be a huge relief. Thank you for your great article!

    • http://twitter.com/MaryDeMuth Mary DeMuth

      Miralee, I believe you can do it. :)

  • Cindy Finley

    My biggest problem is that I use my inbox as a holding tank until I get the time to reply. Ugh. Right now I have whittled it down, but I have 13 that I’ve got to address at some point. You’re motivating me to “just do it!”

    • http://twitter.com/MaryDeMuth Mary DeMuth

      You can do it, Cindy!

  • Kimberly Vogel

    Did you read my mind today? Today I thought to myself, “Why do I have THAT many emails? I’m sure I can get rid of a few!” Now I want to get rid of more than a few!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I sometimes read minds. (just kidding)

  • http://www.facebook.com/kellywsmith Kelly Smith

    Great post, Mary! Email is definitely one of those time-suckers. Appreciate your great tips, especially #2. I’ve done this and it really does save SO much time, not only for responding to emails but comments on my blog as well. Miss your sweet smile! So thankful to God to have met you! Praying for your sweet girl! eHugs, kel

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thanks for the prayers. :)

  • http://www.KariDay.com/ Kari Day

    Inspired…. truly. I have been doing the “unsubscribe” thing lately too… it’s freeing!! But, I am too afraid to delete the whole in-box…. I keep thinking, I bet there is a receipt I need in there for taxes… or something! I need to be brave and do it cause I’m drowning!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Delete!

  • http://www.facebook.com/LLShapiro Laura Shapiro

    I cannot figure out how to delete page after page. And yes, I have zillions. Most of them are in Hot mail, everything else is more easily managed.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Try googling it.

  • http://profiles.google.com/melindatoad Melinda Todd

    I’m so not a Jedi. I have over 12k emails sitting there staring at me. I’ve tried doing a huge delete for certain things, like FB notifications but my email program just freezes up. So I let them sit. I’m trying to get rid of them :)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You can do it.

  • Deanna Wiseburn

    I have actually done several of these steps…but I have tons of folders for filing. And my biggest area of problems seems to be all the blogs I subscribe to in my email. Because some days I simply don’t have the time to read all the blogs when I am trying to get other things done. And because I use incredimail, instead of Google on the web, I have so many folders and things I have to occasionally clean out….and because of the new update, I can’t no longer click on my links from incredimail, and have to switch to gmail whenever I want to unsubscribe or follow a link.

  • http://www.isthatyoulord.blogspot.com Shelly Faust

    I’m too embarrassed to even say how many emails I have (or how many times I’ve let them pile up). This is definitely a cause of unnecessary anguish for me. I desperately need the Force to be with me. Mary, you are an inspiration to me on so many levels. Thank you for all you do (and for sharing it with us). Thankful to have been introduced to your ministry at She Speaks 2011 :)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Go Shelly!!! You can DELETE! I know you can. Rah rah rah!

  • http://youaremygirls.com/ Jennifer Camp

    Mary, okay .. . you are extremely motivating. .. Thank you. I just might have the courage to tackle those 1000+ emails. :)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Jennifer, I have utmost confidence in you. Go, Jennifer, go! Delete! Let go! Be Free!

  • Donna McBroom-Theriot

    This is so great. I pinned it to my reference board. I am going to become a Jedi. While getting rid of old emails, I have been trying to unsubscribe as they come into my email each day.

  • heather.adams

    Great advice. It’s hard for me to keep up with work emails, personal emails, etc…

  • Revjmckee

    Ugh!!! My Outlook inbox has about 4000 right now! I keep thinking there’s something important somewhere in the deep space of my inbox. Actually, I think I felt the “force” just thinking about a complete annihilation of all inhabitants! I might just have to “do” & not “try”. Thanks for a great post!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      JUST SAY DELETE!

  • Sherrey

    Amazing!  I just became an Email Jedi of the Second Order and didn’t even know it.  Feeling oppressed by combing through THREE email inboxes (ours [husband and I share an address for shared friends, etc.], my personal one for all things devotional and writer wannabe, and our business), I finally tackled my personal inbox with a vengeance about a week and a half ago.  I couldn’t take it any more.  I hadn’t read Michael Hyatt’s 7 steps, but followed them almost to a “T”.  I can now face my emails about writing, devotional studies, etc., with grace and calm.  I almost laughed aloud when I read this.

    BTW, I’m really enjoying Live Uncaged. It rings of my life in so many ways.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Way to go, Jedi Sherrey!

  • http://whimsysmitten.blogspot.com Cara @ WhimsySmitten

    Thank you for this.  I am in a major process of clearing out the excess in many aspects of my life.  I hadn’t even considered how much my inbox was contributing to my overload.  I’m embarrassed to admit this, but with gmail and virtually unlimited storage, I haven’t had to worry about deleting email.  Current count is 18,876 emails, and I’m not even kidding.  Sigh.  I’m challenging myself to let it ALL go and take lots of steps to keep it from getting like that again!  Thanks!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Love “WhimsySmitten” Cool!

  • Deidra

    I JUST cleaned out my email inbox this morning. Whittled it down from “thousands” to 23! And that was BEFORE I read this post! So let me apologize for the all caps and the exclamation marks but girlfriend, The Force is with me!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You go, Jedi Girl!

  • http://conniearnold.blogspot.com/ Connie Arnold

    Wonderful advice, Mary, and so needed! Thank you for the encouragement and helpful suggestions to become an email Jedi.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You are welcome, Connie.

  • Brendaattheranch

    I struggle with the folders thing. My logic is, if I have a bunch of folders that are as specifically named as possible, it ought to be easy to find what I’m looking for.  But eventually, that overwhelms me as much as just having a bunch of stuff in my inbox.  It’s hard especially in the area of novel research.  Someone posts a great site for research on Apaches, or the Civil War, or how to make candles, etc.  And if you do a lot of research, and participate in genre loops, that means a LOT of useful email.

    Whether many folders or few, neither seems ideal.

    BK Jackson

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You might want to try Evernote for research.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You might want to try Evernote for research.

  • Lynn Mosher

    Thanks so much for this, Mary! I’m trying to follow it all! My inbox is driving me nuts!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You can do it, Lynn!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      You can do it, Lynn!

  • Anonymous

    After last night’s chat on incourage I added your blog to my reader and stumbled upon this wonderful post.  In the past 4 hours I have cleaned out my inbox from 5800+ emails which had accumulated since 2002 (believe it or not) to 0 !!!!! I am so happy.  I went back over the chat again today and checked out all the links you posted.  Thank you so much for all your advice.

  • Anonymous

    After last night’s chat on incourage I added your blog to my reader and stumbled upon this wonderful post.  In the past 4 hours I have cleaned out my inbox from 5800+ emails which had accumulated since 2002 (believe it or not) to 0 !!!!! I am so happy.  I went back over the chat again today and checked out all the links you posted.  Thank you so much for all your advice.

  • Anonymous

    After last night’s chat on incourage I added your blog to my reader and stumbled upon this wonderful post.  In the past 4 hours I have cleaned out my inbox from 5800+ emails which had accumulated since 2002 (believe it or not) to 0 !!!!! I am so happy.  I went back over the chat again today and checked out all the links you posted.  Thank you so much for all your advice.

  • Anonymous

    After last night’s chat on incourage I added your blog to my reader and stumbled upon this wonderful post.  In the past 4 hours I have cleaned out my inbox from 5800+ emails which had accumulated since 2002 (believe it or not) to 0 !!!!! I am so happy.  I went back over the chat again today and checked out all the links you posted.  Thank you so much for all your advice.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Alexandra, you get TEN gold stars for this. Wow. You go, girl!!!! You have achieved Jedi status.

  • Simplysue

    Mary, this is so timely as I sit facing a backlog of email! I can identify with you in so many ways! Another thing to remember, all you have subcribed to are good things and wonderful people, but you have to keep it focused with your purpose and keeping life simple! Less is best, and I am off to be an email Jedi now! I agree with Yoda: “there is so such thing as try, you either do or do not.” I’m “doin” it, how about you?

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, I only keep email newsletters that challenge or change me.

  • simon k.mureu

    MARY……..AND I  have been doing most of what you have stated. Kindly,Simon K,Mureu,Kenya

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Good job, Simon!

  • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

    Wow. I am impressed by the level of geekery it took to write this, particularly the use of “midichlorians.” Nice one! I’m also slightly convicted that I picked up on every Star Wars reference without having to click a single link.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I take this as the highest compliment. I think I’m a closet geek.

      • http://goinswriter.com/ Jeff Goins

        i meant it in no other way. you’re far from a padawan geek! she who once was a student is now the master…

        • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

          Awesome!

  • Marji Laine

    Excellent post! I find I procrastinate with emails. I star them to deal with them later and then forget why I marked them! Thanks for the great ideas!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      I like what Levi Smith’s article said. “Never touch an email twice.” That rule might help you. Deal with it in the moment.

    • http://thecontrapuntist.com contrapuntist

      I do the same thing. It’s horrible. I do need to get better with deleting crap I don’t need and unsubscribing to stuff that just clutters the inbox.  Goes for work AND blog emails.  

      Email for my blogs, I have a tendency to save stuff, but then I never or rarely go back to it. 

      This zero inbox thing sounds horribly hard…

  • http://www.itsworthnoting.com Levi Smith

    All good tips. At my office, we’re challenging everyone to get email management down to less than 7 hrs/week deploying similar techniques and leveraging other means of communication instead of letting email rule as the default. http://bit.ly/ktUAO6

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Levi, thanks for providing that link. Great stuff there. Kudos for being so proactive in the email area. It is a time killer!

  • http://missionsuntold.com Jordan Monson

    Interesting! I like to see how your methods differ from Hyatt’s. I do leave email open throughout the day, but I really shouldn’t. I have compromised “check email twice a day and process everything” to “leave email open all day and process twice.” I still get my inbox zeroed, but I probably waste time. I’m glad that you work better leaving it open. 

    I have subscribed to Michael Hyatt’s keyboard shortcut theory that you should never let your hands leave the keyboard. I process 90% of my emails into my archive folder, but I also have keyboard shortcuts for “To read” for newsletters and things like that. I have “hold” for important info I need to hold onto, like airline tickets, and I also have “answer” for emails that require a response. I hold the command key and click whichever shortcut is appropriate for the folder.

    Are you on a mac Mary? It looks like Mac OS, but on a separate monitor. 

    Thanks for your great post! Email seems to be the most or the least effective thing I do on the computer, depending on how I do it. It’s always nice to glean tips from people like yourself.
    Jordan

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yeah, Jordan, I’m on a Mac Mini. It’s how I could afford a Mac! Just used my old monitor and keyboard.

      I need to learn keyboard shortcuts.

  • http://simply-rea.blogspot.com/ Rea

    I set up a hotmail account that I use whenever i order anything and for most of my newsletter subscriptions. It has cut down significantly on the junk that clutters up my main email, and I only check the hotmail when I feel like it.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s a terrific idea, Rea.

  • Amy Boucher Pye

    Great post, Mary. I especially like your number 7 – email is a place where we can extend grace and relationships.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That’s so true, Amy.

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