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21 Years of Wedded Joy!

25 Comments 29 December 2011

Twenty-one years ago during what weather forecasters declared “The Arctic Express,” Patrick and I were married in the Seattle area. Not many of our guests could come because the hilly roads became an ice skating ring. Our sound system didn’t arrive, so we danced to a boom box (very quiet and pretty awkward). Our first night’s bed and breakfast got cancelled the night before, so Patrick had to scramble to find a hotel. And in that hotel in the wee hours of December waning, an earthquake tripped the alarm, sending us and other guests into the hallway.

So we started with mishap, but we’ve endured with joy.

Ups and downs. Joy and tears. Three amazing children. Ten moves (including big ones from Seattle to Texas and Texas to France and back again).

I’m terribly thankful for a husband who loves Jesus, adores me, and fathers his children brilliantly. I wouldn’t be who I am today without his constant, steady cheerleading, his encouragement for me to grow, and, yes, even our conflicts. All that mixed together has blessed me in ways I can’t quantify.

Patrick, I love you. I need you. I enjoy spending time with you. Still.

Let’s keep walking this path together.

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  • S_wiggs74

    The secret to a long lasting blissful marriage is God. As long as He is included what can one expect? Eternal Love, because thats what relationships with Him involve. God is no temporary date or night out in the city. He is 24/7 all day every day! Blessings to you both. Thank you father for this beautiful, inspiring, and spiritual couple!

  • Kim

    Congratulations! Ah…love is a beautiful thing. Wishing you many more unforgettable moments together in God’s grace.

  • Anonymous

    What a precious picture and what sweet words about your blessed union. God is so good, isn’t He?! Congratulations, and many many more years together!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Yes, He is good.

  • http://www.leannepenny.com Leanne Penny

    Congrats, you guys are way crazy cute.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Ah shucks.

  • http://juliesunne.com/ Julie Sunne

    Congratulations, Mary! As you’ve described, all doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful. God works in the mishaps and messes as well. Wishing you many more blissful years together.

  • http://juliesunne.com/ Julie Sunne

    Congratulations, Mary! As you’ve described, all doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful. God works in the mishaps and messes as well. Wishing you many more blissful years together.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Julie.

  • http://tanyadennisbooks.com/ Tanya

    I love hearing stories of “bad” weddings. It seems they initiate the best marriages. In a few days we’ll celebrate our 13th anniversary by remembering our own “mishaps.” Our wedding included a blizzard, a fire, family drama and a lost contact. Our wedding photos show me with one green eye and one blue one. :) No one will ever forget our wedding just as no one  will every forget yours. Happy anniversary!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Congrats on 13 years, Tanya!

  • http://www.LeslieWilson.com/ Leslie Porter Wilson

    Mary, you and Patrick live a wonderful example of a Christ-centered marriage. I love having friends who care so fiercely about their husbands and fight to maintain intimacy in their marriages. Happy Anniversary! And congratulations on two decades +. 

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      That means a lot coming from you. I admire your marriage so much.

  • http://janicejohnson.wordpress.com/ Janice J

    I never “share” blog posts on Facebook, but I shared THIS one! We are at 33+ years and I echo your last three paragraphs (except my husband’s name is not Patrick!)  ;)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Janice!

  • http://rachturner.wordpress.com/ RachTurner

    Congratulations to you both!  What a sweet tribute to your life together.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Rach.

  • http://twitter.com/kassius_klay Clay Burkle

    I love Patrick too!  Congrats to you both!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Ah, a man crush!

  • http://twitter.com/kassius_klay Clay Burkle

    I love Patrick too!  Congrats to you both!

  • http://www.the123blog.com/ Marcia (123blog)

    Congratulations to you both, Mary! That is a fantastic achievement and what a beautiful post. I also LOVE that pic! It’s fun and intimate ;)

  • http://www.the123blog.com/ Marcia (123blog)

    Congratulations to you both, Mary! That is a fantastic achievement and what a beautiful post. I also LOVE that pic! It’s fun and intimate ;)

  • http://www.the123blog.com/ Marcia (123blog)

    Congratulations to you both, Mary! That is a fantastic achievement and what a beautiful post. I also LOVE that pic! It’s fun and intimate ;)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

      Thank you Marcia!

  • http://www.the123blog.com/ Marcia (123blog)

    Congratulations to you both, Mary! That is a fantastic achievement and what a beautiful post. I also LOVE that pic! It’s fun and intimate ;)

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