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Start a Conversation Revolution around your dinner table! (& Win 2 books!)

174 Comments 25 January 2011

Start a Conversation Revolution around your dinner table! (& Win 2 books!)

This contest is officially closed.

Here are the winners!

#3 BeckyBi6

#43 Kirsten Wilson

#75 DesertRose5173

#130 CarmaDutra

#145 LJ

Please send me your address by emailing me at mary @ marydemuth.com

Congratulations!

I’m happy to say that my latest book (it’s small and cute) arrived in the mail this week from Harvest House Publishers. It’s called 150 Quick Questions to Get Your Kids Talking and you can order it here if you’re so inclined.

Let me tell you the story of this book. We were on a family vacation to Colorado on our way home. I had my Alphasmart with me (before a dear friend graciously gave me her old laptop). As we drove, I thought about the way we spent our time around the dinner table–a pretty typical way–where we shared one high for the day and one low. Although this is a terrific thing to do, I felt something was missing from our conversation. The high/low became rote for us. So as we drove miles and miles across the desolate part of Texas, I brainstormed several hundred questions I wanted to ask my kids (or thought they might want to ask me). I typed them out on my little device, then uploaded them when I came home.

There, I printed the long list of questions, cut them into strips, folded them, then put them in a box in the center of our dining table. Every day, we took turns with who would reach in and grab a question. The results? Read on…

  • We had more lively discussions.
  • We got to learn things about our kids we didn’t know.
  • Our children understood where we were coming from as people, not just parents.
  • We understood our children as people too, not just as our kids.
  • Sometimes we were surprised at our kids’ responses.
  • We laughed more.
  • We discovered more prayer requests.
  • We helped our kids navigate tough questions, difficult relationships, and frustrating school experiences–things that wouldn’t have come to light without the questions.
  • We saw the individuality of each child.
  • Dinners became a time of insight.
  • We lingered around the table more.
  • We deepened our relationships.
  • When others joined us around the table, we had a unique way to invite them into our lives by asking them a question too.

The family table is, unfortunately, dying out. This little book is my way of inviting you back there, to woo you to spend good, quality time with your kids. 150 Quick Questions is an affordable little tool that can get you started in a new direction.

I’m going to giveaway 2 books to 5 winners. If you’re one of the winners, you’ll receive two copies of the book, one for you and one to give away to another family. It’s my way of spreading the conversational joy in homes across the nation.

There are several ways you can enter. The more you enter, the better your chances. I’ll close this on Wednesday January 26th at Midnight CST. The only way to enter is to comment below. Here are ways you can enter multiple comments:

  1. Comment here, sharing a creative way you would market this book to families. (I need help!)
  2. Sign up for Inside Renewal. (Click under the Missing Chapter of Thin Places link on the upper right hand side.) If you’re already a subscriber, comment separately and tell me, for example: “I already subscribe to Inside Renewal and it’s utterly changed my life.” or “I just subscribed to Inside Renewal and I’m oh-so-excited!”
  3. Become one of my peeps on Facebook here. (Click the “like” button.) Let me know you did that in the comments section, something like, “I’m forever grateful to connect with you on Facebook.” If you already “like” me (Hint, you don’t actually have to like me personally…), you can simply let me know you’re already a fan.
  4. Tweet about this fun contest (yes it’s fun!) by using the hashtag #150QuickQuestions. Then let me know here that you did it below in the comment section.
  5. Send an email to some families who might enjoy this book. (Here’s a link to buy: http://amzn.to/gUCzuQ) Copy me on the email (mary@marydemuth.com). Then share here that you did so. (Scroll down to the bottom of this post for some verbiage about the book that you can send to your friends. It’s marked with an * and in bold black text.)

I look forward to seeing who my five winners will be. And if you’d like to start a conversation revolution in your home tonight, scroll down for three questions to get you started.

*Mary DeMuth, author of Ordinary Mom, Extraordinary God, was tired of family dialogue based only on schedules, chores, or bedtime negotiations. Inspired by Jesus’ meaningful interactions with others, Mary shaped this great resource to help parents develop discussion skills, nurture relational talks with kids, and build strong families in the process.

To keep the chats going, Mary offers 150 engaging conversation starters to reconnect families at dinner time, while in the car, at bedtime, or anytime that two or more are gathered.

  • What has been the happiest day of your life so far?
  • How did you sense God’s presence this week?
  • If you could give your best friend any gift, what would it be? Why?

Creative questions and guidance help families explore faith, compassion, memories, and hopes. Parents, grandparents, teachers, youth leaders, and kids will discover the entertainment and connection that unfolds once the talking begins.

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  • Lisa DeC

    I’m also already on of your fan peeps on facebook. Thanks for another opportunity to win! :)

  • Lisa DeC

    We ask the high/low question of our 3 children at the end of the day as you mentioned in your Inside Renewal post (I’m already a subscriber), so I would enjoy winning a copy of your new book to expand on what we’re already doing. Thanks for the opportunity to win!

  • Cheria

    I’m already a subscriber to Inside Renewal and very much enjoying the e-mails and getting to know you through them. You have given me a lot to think about. Thanks!

  • Kirsten Wilson

    I’ve subscribed to Inside Renewal. :)

  • http://www.kirstenwilson.net Kirsten Wilson

    Sounds like a great resource! In terms of marketing: Maybe team up with someone who’s written a cookbook and market the two together. Or maybe talk with people who host kitchen supply/cooking sorts of home parties to see if you could offer books alongside what they’re doing.

    • Anonymous

      Kristen, you’re a winner! Please email me at mary@marydemuth.com and send me your physical address.

  • Cheria

    I’m not very good at marketing ideas. That’s why I have been in payroll and benefits for 17 years. They don’t let me into the creative and marketing areas. But I do like what I am hearing about the new book and would love to win a copy and have a copy to share.

  • Donna

    I love that these are “tested” out first! What a great resource!

  • Shannon

    I just emailed the youth pastor, the children’s pastor and one of the family counselors at church. :)

  • Shannon

    As for a marketing idea, I’d hit up youth pastors, family counselors and children’s pastors. I just went to a parenting night hosted by our youth pastor and a counselor. This book would have been an excellent resource for the parents there. In fact, I’m emailing them right now!

  • Shannon

    I am a Facebook follower! :)

  • shannon

    I subscribe to Inside Renewal and love it! I think you are a mind-reader. :)

  • Pattie

    I would market this book to churches, for sure. Also military chapels, where families struggle to stay connected when parents deploy. I tweeted about your contest, and I’m a subscriber to your e-newsletter. I also re-”liked” you on Facebook.

  • Emily

    I’d love to be in the contest!! You continually inspire me, THANK YOU!!

    Emily :D

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  • http://sandielzinga.wordpress.com Sandi Elzinga

    Mary,
    Count me in the contest to win your book! I just tweeted about it.on my twitter page.
    Love your books!

  • Christina

    Mary, you continually inspire me. I love how real and open your prayers are.

  • Jesten

    I don’t know if I can think of anything to market the book – everything you have said here has peaked my interest and I believe it will peak other’s interests as well. What a great concept – getting the family together again around the kitchen or dinning room table – it has been lost on the present generation.

  • http://www.LivePowerfullyNow.org Linda

    Oh…I am starting a 10 Week Parenting Intensive class at my church this Sunday, your book will fit right into the sessions I’m teaching. So a tip to increase the outflow of books… get it into the hands of authors who are already teaching or leading parents.

  • Carrie

    I shared this link on Facebook. This looks like a great book! We have done a similar thing with a small box of questions called I talk, U Listen. That was fun. We are always looking for ways to spark conversation.
    Blessings,Carrie

  • Janice

    Market this book in the grocery stores. They all sell small cookbooks. That way it links the questions to the dinner table.

  • http://www.LivePowerfullyNow.org Linda

    Yes!!! I am already “liking” everything you do to support the family Mary. This will be an instant addition to my recommended reading for the family list.

  • Stephanie

    I’m a subscriber to Inside Renewal

  • Stephanie

    I LIKE you on facebook already : ) Thanks!

  • Thegordons

    Oh and I am already your fan :)

  • Thegordons

    What a great idea!!! Ways I would share is on FB and the email I would send to my homeschool group. Also my mom works at the heights baptist church maybe you could put your book in their book store.

  • http://batsonfamilyblog.blogspot.com/ Stephanie

    I think a great way to market this book would be to start another! Ask people for THEIR tried and true questions and do a giveaway or contest. (This sorta reminds me of Chicken Soup for the Soul or the website you can leave your “secrets” but in a completely positive way. It can CATCH and grow grow grow!) OR, get on local TV/Radio or hook up with some Proverbs 31 and share on one of their daily Bible studies. They go out to a ton of ladies, too. OR, Hire me! I’d love to help market your book :) Or, team up with a local toy store and have them at the counter while moms are checking out. (not sure what your distribution looks like already). Or, host Mom’s coffee shop talks (and solicit some readers or winners to host some coffee sessions) to talk about the book and pray for the conversations of the families in their communities and church body. Then have the women report back through your blog :) GOOD luck. I will be posting again for my additional entries.

  • Timari

    I’m already a Renewal subscriber and I oh-so-enjoy it. ;o) I’m sure your newest book will be great,too!

  • Jen

    Oh! Forgot to add that I think a great way to market this is to any mom’s group, such as MOPS groups, through Christian bookstores. These questions might be on the older end of the spectrum for preschoolers (perhaps they could be adapted for the younger set) but I’d imagine the book will be a great resource for the long haul, as children get older.

  • Jen

    Can’t wait to see all the questions in this book, and get started on the three you’ve given already! Sometimes we all need that little nudge to get beyond “What was good about your day?” to the deeper questions and answers that we really seek to get to know one another better. Great book idea!

  • Jen

    Can’t wait to see all the questions in this book, and get started on the three you’ve given already! Sometimes we all need that little nudge to get beyond “What was good about your day?” to the deeper questions and answers that we really seek to get to know one another better. Great book idea!

  • http://twitter.com/BeckyB16 BeckyB16

    Just signed up for your newsletter – can’t wait to start getting that!

  • http://www.writewayedits.weebly.com Amy Van Vleck

    You MUST have copies of these available at all 3 HomePointe Centers for Lake Pointe Church. This is exactly the type of book they want to promote….
    I already follow you on FB!
    Will happily send an email to my friends letting them know of this book release!

  • http://twitter.com/BeckyB16 BeckyB16

    Just signed up for your newsletter – can’t wait to start getting that!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_2UGIQSCO26FCQPHH2VRYL7RG5A Kelley

    I’m also a subscriber to Inside Renewal. Thanks! (I just used Yahoo to enter this comment, but earlier I commented as a guest. next time I’ll use the same format when commenting multiple times)

  • http://www.writewayedits.weebly.com Amy Van Vleck

    You MUST have copies of these available at all 3 HomePointe Centers for Lake Pointe Church. This is exactly the type of book they want to promote….
    I already follow you on FB!
    Will happily send an email to my friends letting them know of this book release!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_2UGIQSCO26FCQPHH2VRYL7RG5A Kelley

    I’m also a subscriber to Inside Renewal. Thanks! (I just used Yahoo to enter this comment, but earlier I commented as a guest. next time I’ll use the same format when commenting multiple times)

  • Melissa

    I have been reading a lot the last two days on discipling our children as Jesus discipled. One of the main themes is time we spend with our children, investing, teaching and growing them. If I jump up and down with my hand in the air and say, “Pick me!” over and over again….

  • Melissa

    I have been reading a lot the last two days on discipling our children as Jesus discipled. One of the main themes is time we spend with our children, investing, teaching and growing them. If I jump up and down with my hand in the air and say, “Pick me!” over and over again….

  • Kelley Mathews

    I would include the extra book in the door prizes at my MOPS group–during our annual “Tea and Testimony” day when the visiting speaker is invited to share spiritual insights more deeply than our usual meetings.

  • Rhea

    Sounds like a book we need in our church library. I would include it in our monthly library column in the church newsletter

  • linda steinert

    emailing now too thanks again for putting this out there

  • http://twitter.com/BeckyB16 BeckyB16

    Here’s my extra comment!! :)

  • Kelley Mathews

    I’m already a FB fan

  • http://twitter.com/BeckyB16 BeckyB16

    I sent my email out to our church families and copied you in!! :)

  • Linda Steinert

    My Tweet is done too

  • Linda Steinert

    I am a FB friend that is how I learned about this contest thanks again

  • Linda Steinert

    I do subscribe to the Inside Renewal and I enjoy it very much

  • Linda Steinert

    I that just telling families that the book is out there will sell copies. I am a mother of 7 and am now raising my grandchildren and I am always looking for help with the dinner table. I think it is a shame that we have lost this time with the family it is so important and a great way to stay connected. Keep up the good work

    • Anonymous

      That’s encouraging to know, Linda. I do think the book fills a need.

  • http://twitter.com/BeckyB16 BeckyB16

    I put it up on Twitter!!

  • http://twitter.com/BeckyB16 BeckyB16

    I LOVE this idea!
    I already follow you on Facebook.
    We are children’s ministry directors at our church – one thing we like to do is buy a bundle of the books and set them out for our parents to pay for and take home. You could maybe market them heavily to children’s ministry pastors and workers. :)

    • Anonymous

      Becky, great idea!

      Also, be sure you comment again so you have an entry.

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