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What the Tri Taught Me

19 Comments 23 August 2010

What the Tri Taught Me

So my son Aidan and I did a triathlon this last weekend. And it was HOT. The hottest day in Texas so far. 105 with a heat index of 112. To those of you interested in doing your first triathlon, may I offer a piece of advice? Don’t do one in Texas in the heat of summer. Here’s why:I got sick.

Really sick.

For several reasons:

  1. I never eat anything before I exercise in the morning, but I reasoned that having a little bit of a shake would be a good idea. After all, I wouldn’t race for two more hours. Wrong idea.
  2. I just can’t handle the heat, having grown up in Seattle. So when I exercise, I avoid it. I run/bike/workout at 7:00 AM.
  3. Water is my friend, but I’m not a thirsty person. I should’ve swallowed much, much more.
  4. I let a little competition at the end push me over the edge.

Aidan and I started off well. He swam very fast, and I made my way through the water with relative ease. The bike was probably my best run so far. 49 minutes for twelve miles. Certainly not a record by any shot, but it was good for me. Then I started the run. By the time I saw Aidan on the run, he told me he’d thrown up. (Fie on that shake!). He walked a bit, then ran to the end. I told myself that I had to run the whole 5k, never letting myself walk.

The run was in full sun. And unfortunately there were only two water stations, spread pretty far apart. I ran into my friend Pat going one way, and thankfully she offered me some water. But by the last bit, where I could finally see the finish line after what seemed to be the longest, hottest 3 miles of my life, two women saddled up alongside me. As they did, the nausea hit in full force. “Don’t let us pass you,” they said. “Come with us.”

I tried. Oh I tried. But the moment I ran faster, my stomach boiled. Within twenty feet of the finish line, out its contents came. Then I made it across the line, and more projected. I found a tent (so desperate for shade) and fell on the cement, my head against the hot pavement while my stomach finished emptying itself. I am pretty sure I decorated several people with my innards.

Thankfully, immediately, someone poured water on me. Then the paramedics came and hoisted me onto a stretcher. Into the ambulance we went.

It didn’t take long for me to cool down and feel normal again, but the whole incident scared me. Later I heard from a veteran runner that it’s really unwise to run in heat over 90 degrees. Agreed!

Here’s my takeaway from the tri:

  1. Trust your instincts. I shouldn’t have made that shake. I knew it, but I let other voices/words about fueling my body influence me. If I had only trusted my gut! (And since I betrayed my gut, it betrayed me right back. Tenfold.)
  2. Water is essential for life. I believe this on many levels. When my son Aidan developed a passion for water wells in Africa, I caught his passion. People need water. And if we can help them get it, we should. But also spiritual water is a necessity. I need Jesus’ living water. Every. Single. Day. I can’t justify my seeming un-need for water. The truth is we’re all thirsty folks, and we all need to drink in Jesus as much as possible. It didn’t matter in the tri that I had a lot to drink the previous day. What mattered was how much I ingested on that very day, moment by moment.
  3. Run your own race. I think I would’ve (perhaps) refrained from throwing up had I not pushed myself to keep up with those quick girls. I needed to run my own race, not theirs. So many times we try to keep up with someone on a different path only to crash and burn in the trying. Be confident that God has you on this path right now. Don’t look to the left or right or try to keep up with someone else’s walk. Just do what’s in front of you, in the timing and manner that God has for you.
  4. Rejoice through the pain. The last mile, I repeated “Hallelujah” with nearly every footfall. Every pace forward meant one more step closer to the finish line. Each step I thanked God for. Every Hallelujah helped me focus completely on the Lord and the task in front of me.
  5. Finish well. I didn’t. I finished in an ambulance. Had I paced myself better, I would’ve. Which means there is much work to be done before the race and during to ensure that I don’t finish in a heap.

Side note: This picture is me two years ago at a triathlon. I didn’t get any pictures of me this year. Well, a friend snapped a few as I came across the finish line, but I don’t think those would edify you!

My question for you: What has your latest adventure taught you about life or God or yourself?

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  • http://youthministerswife.blogspot.com Christiana Mustion

    I like this post. I think it really reminds us just how much we can't get caught up in our situations. Thank you for sharing your situation so honestly. I have recently started running and I find that I do SO much better when I focus on my goal and my pace than when I focus on how much time I have already run. I am just a newbie runner. I have been working on building some endurance through walking/running rotations. Today I ran six minutes straight without stopping or walking. It felt great! I looked at my watch, one time, at the four and a half minute mark and almost quit. I'm glad I didn't. Thank you for sharing.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      Good job, Christiana. Running and walking is a great way to build up endurance.

  • http://youthministerswife.blogspot.com Christiana Mustion

    I like this post. I think it really reminds us just how much we can't get caught up in our situations. Thank you for sharing your situation so honestly. I have recently started running and I find that I do SO much better when I focus on my goal and my pace than when I focus on how much time I have already run. I am just a newbie runner. I have been working on building some endurance through walking/running rotations. Today I ran six minutes straight without stopping or walking. It felt great! I looked at my watch, one time, at the four and a half minute mark and almost quit. I'm glad I didn't. Thank you for sharing.

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      Good job, Christiana. Running and walking is a great way to build up endurance.

  • Kevin Bailey

    MWTR – Rats – it sounds like this was more than even a "Kevin Bailey" could have prevented. Sorry you had a hard last third. But – I'm proud of you for crossing the finish line. How bout the Anchorage Triathalon in December. Tell Aidan way to go!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      I needed you, Kevin! You could've brought a little airline bag for me! :) I'll tell Aidan congrats. So I might've overheated in Texas, but I would freeze to death in Anchorage!

  • Kevin Bailey

    MWTR – Rats – it sounds like this was more than even a "Kevin Bailey" could have prevented. Sorry you had a hard last third. But – I'm proud of you for crossing the finish line. How bout the Anchorage Triathalon in December. Tell Aidan way to go!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      I needed you, Kevin! You could've brought a little airline bag for me! :) I'll tell Aidan congrats. So I might've overheated in Texas, but I would freeze to death in Anchorage!

  • http://www.ironmakeover.blogspot.com/ Sara Cox Landolt

    Stories like this are important Mary, thanks for sharing your experience. There are many step-by-step choices in a triathlon of any distance. I'm glad you were able to get help at the finish line. Take care!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      Thanks so much, Sara.

  • http://www.ironmakeover.blogspot.com/ Sara Cox Landolt

    Stories like this are important Mary, thanks for sharing your experience. There are many step-by-step choices in a triathlon of any distance. I'm glad you were able to get help at the finish line. Take care!

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      Thanks so much, Sara.

  • http://foodliesandtruth.blogspot.com/ Barb W

    Excellent post. I related to number three the most. Too often I allow others to influence my decisions.

  • http://foodliesandtruth.blogspot.com/ Barb W

    Excellent post. I related to number three the most. Too often I allow others to influence my decisions.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kerrie.coulstock Kiri Coulstock

    I am blessed to live in the Fiji Islands. This week and friend and I helped teach inmates in Suva Women's Prison to bake.

    I took a chicken, lettuce and carrot sandwich, with ranch dressing, but asked permission at lunchtime to give it to our two girls to share. The reverence given to the sandwich was phenomenal. It was cut, painstakingly, gently, tenderly, into perfect quarters. You would think it was about to be eaten by the Queen. It looked PERFECT.

    After a prayer, the girls slowly and delicately took a first bite. I nudged Jill. The look of rapture on Ilebere's face was incredible. She looked like she'd died and gone to heaven. As the sandwich moved around her mouth, her head looked heavenward and she closed her eyes in bliss. She had no idea we were watching. When she opened her eyes, we teased her gently about her reaction. She explained that it is very rarely that they get salad, and never anything like the sandwich with dressing.

    When a neighbouring workmate asked for it, there was just a heartbeat of hesitation, then she good-naturedly gave the lady the remaining quarter, of the two she'd been given.

    I suddenly ~ and sincerely ~ lost all appetite for my box of salad. I think it was the huge slice of humble pie I had.

    So the two girls shared it, Lucilla pouncing on pieces of celery like it was chocolate.

    I came home with a new appreciation of the freedom I take for granted; the choices I can make for myself (what I will eat, wear, do, listen to) and a deeper understanding of humility and sacrifice. The day was a bead of solid gold, in the string of pearls I call life.
    (Am I allowed to plug my blog? if so, see more http://www.kiricoulstock.blogspot.com)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      Thanks for your story. Beautifully written.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kerrie.coulstock Kiri Coulstock

    I am blessed to live in the Fiji Islands. This week and friend and I helped teach inmates in Suva Women's Prison to bake.

    I took a chicken, lettuce and carrot sandwich, with ranch dressing, but asked permission at lunchtime to give it to our two girls to share. The reverence given to the sandwich was phenomenal. It was cut, painstakingly, gently, tenderly, into perfect quarters. You would think it was about to be eaten by the Queen. It looked PERFECT.

    After a prayer, the girls slowly and delicately took a first bite. I nudged Jill. The look of rapture on Ilebere's face was incredible. She looked like she'd died and gone to heaven. As the sandwich moved around her mouth, her head looked heavenward and she closed her eyes in bliss. She had no idea we were watching. When she opened her eyes, we teased her gently about her reaction. She explained that it is very rarely that they get salad, and never anything like the sandwich with dressing.

    When a neighbouring workmate asked for it, there was just a heartbeat of hesitation, then she good-naturedly gave the lady the remaining quarter, of the two she'd been given.

    I suddenly ~ and sincerely ~ lost all appetite for my box of salad. I think it was the huge slice of humble pie I had.

    So the two girls shared it, Lucilla pouncing on pieces of celery like it was chocolate.

    I came home with a new appreciation of the freedom I take for granted; the choices I can make for myself (what I will eat, wear, do, listen to) and a deeper understanding of humility and sacrifice. The day was a bead of solid gold, in the string of pearls I call life.
    (Am I allowed to plug my blog? if so, see more http://www.kiricoulstock.blogspot.com)

    • http://www.marydemuth.com marydemuth

      Thanks for your story. Beautifully written.

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